i may doompost later so to balance that out here is my cute taco kitty

Are my nipples supposed to feel kinda sore on week 2 of the good shit or am I placeboing nipple tenderness?

Hello trans mega friends, I think you’re all very cool and I’m glad that you’re here.

(cat reading newspaper)

I should get better at baking

Gave cookies to the x-ray ppl and orthopedic place that helped me with the broken hand and they were all so kind and appreciative

Wish I was a good baker instead of just adequate but I thought the cookies turned out well all things considered

broke: quitting drinking for health reasons

woke: quitting drinking because it makes me long for a bf so badly 🥺

::: spoiler need some advice (cw institutional transphobia)

Just saw something from a person saying they went to renew their expired passport and werr told that they could not be issued a passport, under any gender marker, because they updated their marker with social security.

Ive done that, and have a passport thats still valid for a couple more months now. Am I facing a de facto travel ban? I think i am, but im really unsure.

uhhhmuhmuhmuhhmuhmhhm ~<

Read I Love Amy, was good but very sad at parts

At like 4 AM a few nights ago, sleepless, I frantically penned down an apparently brand new idea for a gender-neutral pronoun in Esperanto, despite not being a proficient Esperantist. It's like this:

• geu estas neduuma esperantisto (they are a nonbinary Esperantist)
• mi ŝatas geun. (I like them)
• ĉu vi vidis gees katon? (have you seen their cat?)

To quickly explain the idea: Esperanto has a prefix that (unofficially) forms gender-neutral words, and a suffix that (mostly unproductively) forms pronouns, so I figured that the most obvious way to create a gender-neutral pronoun in Esperanto would just be to smash these two affixes together: ge- + -u = geu. Simple as that.

To me this seemed like such an obvious idea in hindsight, that when I looked into it the next morning, I was genuinely surprised to find that apparently no-one else had ever come up with this idea before me: all the other neopronouns coined in Esperanto thus far apparently just smash the gendered pronouns together, or take the gendered pronouns and replace the first letter randomly. This approach comes with its own advantages and disadvantages, but in any case my proposal isn't really trying to "compete" with these other neopronouns, any more than they competes with xe, you know?

Edit: A neat little coincidence is that Korean has a gender-neutral pronoun commonly romanized as geu. Maybe that was a subconscious influence!

In completely unrelated news, did you all know that Margaret McDonald (any/all) is non-binary? I don't know when xe came out as non-binary, but xe's an English-language anime dub VA who I have heard in a lot of different things over the years. I was just watching the movie Tamako Love Story with my mom, in which McDonald plays the titular Tamako Kitashirakawa: I couldn't remember the VA's name, so I looked it up, and that's how I found out that thon was non-binary. Among many other credits, ae also plays Miho Nishizumi in Girls & Panzer — which was frankly the only name I could pull out of my butt, I literally said, "Tamako sounds like whoever it was who did Miho" — and McDonald also voiced Rikka Takanashi in the ever-goated Love, Chunibyo & Other Delusions, and he also played Sachi Momoi in Maria Holic, which interestingly enough is an anime dub that just straight up drops the T slur at one point.

So yeah, nonbinary pog.

Also, e's pan.

Saw a posting for a job I actually want instead of just needing to survive, but I don't think I'm qualified

Behold! As of today, I’m both biologically and legally female. So fuck you, fascists! Victory is mine!

fox news: the school nurse is giving kids bottom surgery if they ask nicely

actual school nurse: i literally cannot give you an ibuprofen or else the entire school district is getting sued to kingdom fuck

Having top surgery 1 week from now, I'm very nervous but excited !!!

she full on my metal until i alchemist: brotherhood

first bit of gardening done this year _^

I'm pan and nonbinary and trans feminine

You all know that already but just felt like reiterating

I'M THEM

I'VE BEEN THEM

I WILL CONTINUE TO BE THEM

Had a dream featuring a cute robot lady and she kept threatening to bite me, but like in a threatening way and I just kept swooning for her

I did get measured today fora bra after work. It was terrifying, but I did manage to do it. I now have a definitive bra size and I love it and hate it. 38I/40H. I didn’t expect that large of a cup size. Kind of gave my mind rest so I don’t have to worry about them being too small. Also, I will never buy another bra under $70.

I was terrified and nervous, but the shopkeeper did an excellent job taking care of me. I’m shocked I was able to do it. Maybe things are turning around. I hope so.

I had such a long and exhausting day but I got a permanent cast for my hand instead of a splint held on with an ace bandage wrap and the lady that put it on for me was the nicest person and really good about explaining everything and was so sweet, I'm gonna have to bake her some brownies or something and get her a nice card

ran out of prog for almost 2 weeks and got back on, how long are these intensified mood swings gonna last it's exhausting

I started doing voice training exercises, and it feels really good and I’m already seeing changes and I’m crying a bunch.

Does anyone have tips for not having to keep stopping to yawn?

The actual puppygirl struggles they don't tell you about

There's such sweet adorable guys in this world

Dreamt I was having the intake for bottom surgery ;-;

Victims of Transphobia Foundation

I think time limits are interesting.

Trying something new

Gonna have to remember to ask my therapist if I was able to adequately tonally convey pissed the fuck off while maintaining femme voice

edward elric and winry rockbell are a straight t4t couple

So like how do you best come out to someone (when dating)? How early in the process? Like I'm semi-stealth it seems, so idk how to go about it😩

I like to name my characters in video games and ttrpgs the name I veeery nearly chose for myself, as like a little joke that literally only I find funny.

I somehow drummed up the courage to get fitted for a bra at a local boutique. Holy actual fuck what am I doing? I'm terrified.

Clothes are fun. They should be free for trans people for the first few years of transition.

I hate the phrase "he or she" in academic texts. Like come on, we have a pronoun for when someone's gender is unknown or unspecified, its they. You don't need to do "he or she" at all. Its just worse than "they" in every way.

Now if your gender is "he or she", then that's a lot cooler

Planned Parenthood follow-up went well. We upped my dose from 1 mg 2/day oral tablets to 5mg/week EV IM (keeping on the 50mg 2/day spiro for now). Really excited!

I've been thinking about what name to call myself. I have one name in mind that I really like, but it's literally my birthname with two letters added. And I don't know how to feel about that. And while it sounds good in most of the languages I speak, it sounds like it was ripped out of some fantasy novel in english, because that's the only context where I have heard the english translation of that name being used.

can't spell "sonic the hedgehog" without "he hedgehog"

people who headcanon him as transfem owned

Got a treat for doing the chores. Jealous?

Caves of Qud is so much fun!

I like when my dream is like:

…and then I actually do it as if I’m not a 5’3 estrogenized girl-thing who can’t even pick up 50 pounds to save my life.

Bah. I spent decades of my life trying to force myself to stay in the closet and no amount of repression could keep me in there, and most trans people can claim the same. Does Trump think he can force us back in with a few executive orders? He has no idea who he's dealing with

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In the most recent Larian community news post about Baldur's Gate 3:

our Community Team took the next most natural step and joined Tumblr - because if the gang are going to star in a thousand slow-burn romance fics, we might as well be there to see it.

trans girls with deep voices are super hot