jlyndby @ jlyndby @lemmy.world

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Well anyway, I messaged him 2 days ago, hey are you the landlord of apartment BLA BLA and he never responded.... Guess he doesn't gaf

Are you trying to gaslight a random person you don't know

I tried that but they always find a way to turn everyone against me. They hate my guts

Idk. Like, interpersonal psychopaths don't scare me as much cause I can always just ghost them for the most part.

My issue is with workplace ones (cause it's hard to find a good job) and also with the ones in my apartment complex. There's no effing way it can be dealt with I'm just screwed.

They do different things. For example if I make zero noise all day then turn the tv on in the evening, they will then knock on my wall but like 30 secs to a min later. Or if I turn my tv on they'll watch their shit too, but it'll be too quiet to pick up so I'd have to turn my tv off, then they will turn theirs off. Etc etc etc

I can’t… because if it’s just a sound recording there’s no way of yelling who is making the noise, and they do it randomly/unpredictably ENOUGH that I can barely ever catch it on video, and my phone can’t just have video on all day.

I can't.. because if it's just a sound recording there's no way of yelling who is making the noise, and they do it randomly/unpredictably ENOUGH that I can barely ever catch it on video, and my phone can't just have video on all day.

I'm scared and idk what colour would work.. maybe like a very dark blue accent wall for the bedroom?

Idk I've literally never had a somewhat normal guy do that.. one was a legit sociopath who was really cruel and evil .. like just ghosting for days I've always had problems with

The other was extremely bipolar and took me through the worst rollercoaster relationship ever where the whole time he was "unsure" about me

I want to but il have to set one up in every room idek how that would work

There's tons of stuff it still gives me anxiety it's wide and open and white

Thanks. Honestly the more I think about it the more ready to move on I am. I can't think of any good reason someone would be this inconsistent.

I don't know, this whole thing is just a trainwreck. If he does message me to hang out I might say yes because I'm lonely but I know I shouldn't and he doesn't have what I need

If he does eventually ask me to hang out again, is there something I should say to make it seem like it's his fault for being a jerk and not the fact that I wasn't attracted to him? Or do you think it's pointless?

Thought there were always jokes about it

They are strangers 😭

Wdym by uncalled for? Like.. idk I can't control how I feel 😭

Plus since so many people flopped maybe they really aren't ok with helping

We don't have those

It's not because I'm scared of them I don't think.. it's more so I just feel uncomfortable about the fact they're doing something for me

Which filter? Do you mean the one inside the container with all the stuff that gets picked up, or the one on the outside of the vaccuum?

I haven't changed it yet but I presumed the motor is already worn out