Are there any words that you pronounce in a way that seems weird to most people?
I've always pronounced the word "Southern" to rhyme with howthurn. I know most people say it like "suthurn" instead. I didn't realize that the way I pronounce it is considered weird until recently!
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I don't personally do this, but many people in my family say the days of the week with "dee". Like "Sundee", "Mondee". I think it's charming, but one of their children said they were weird for saying it that way.
Also, as a programmer, there are some words that programmers use that are abbreviated which I refuse to pronounce the way that others pronounce them because I think it's weird, but virtually everybody pronounces them different to me.
For example, there is a common keyword in programming languages called "enum", and most people I know pronounce it as "EE-num", like it rhymes with "ME dumb". But "enum" is short for "enumeration", so I pronounce it as if it's the first two syllables of "enumeration", like "ee-NUUM". Although I think the normal pronunciation is weird, I don't say anything to people. I just pronounce it the way that I think it should be pronounced. But on multiple occasions, other programmers have called me out for it and asked why I pronounce it "wrong".
There are several other programming terms like this, but they don't immediately come to mind. Enum is the most common example.
I don't personally do this, but many people in my family say the days of the week with "dee". Like "Sundee", "Mondee". I think it's charming, but one of their children said they were weird for saying it that way.
My first English teacher in Germany taught us this way as well. She was horrible. Calling kids stupid and such.
One of my biggest pet peeves in programming, hell even language in general, is when people sound out abbreviations. Like they say url instead of U.R.L. Or sequel instead of S.Q.L. Or in Star Wars when they say at at instead of AT-AT. The funniest one is smück for CMYK.
I knew somebody (not a programmer) who pronounced HTML as "hotmail". I normally let people pronounce things however they want, but I had to beg her to pronounce it differently because I simply couldn't deal with it pronounced like that.
"I'm very skilled at C pound"
Still better than "C hashtag".
I'm a purist. It's "C octothorpe"
You win. All the upvotes.
are you guys talking about C-crossword-grid ?
I think "hotmail" (the email service) is actually called that after HTML.
How old were they? Because this (top left) may be the reason...
I signed up for a Hotmail account in 1997. I told my mom and she freaked out. She heard hot-male.
I had a specific experience where I couldn't understand a client request the first time around because they kept talking about some guy named Earl.
I can't really express how jarring that pronunciation is - you just need to genuinely experience it sometime without warning to truly grok the oddness.
Url and at-at are solidly initialisms. SQL has a solid enough argument for being an acronym that I'll accept either.
I've never met anyone in tech who's pronounced it any way other than "sequel", and some of those folks were DB admins since the 80's.
A lot of our interns and fresh-from-school say S.Q.L. but everyone else is calling it sequel. Usually after a few years even the youth start calling it sequel, in my experience.
It's hard to say MS S.Q.L. Server, at least in comparison to MS Sequel Server
What I have a hard time with is when they just call it "sequel server". Obviously, I understand what they mean, but it seems so nonspecific.
What about FAQ?
Most everyone I know says F.A.Q. But I like saying 'fack', as in it's the page where you find the facts.
Or sequel instead of S.Q.L.
Squeal.
I like saying mumorperger for MMORPG because Yahtzee Croshaw said it that way in one of his review videos once.
Oh, yeah, that one is also on my whitelist.
And Laser.
Do you pronounce "char" like "care"?
I typically pronounce "char" as "character". Honestly, I rarely have any reason to talk specifically about chars, so it doesn't come up often.
The next logical question is, then, why don't I pronounce "enum" as "enumeration"? And the answer is that I often do. But I do say it both long and short.
I do, especially in VARCHAR as vare-care where everyone else is on the varr-carr train.
Reminds me of my highschool computers teacher who pronounced "modem" as "mo-deem". Because it's short for modulator/demodulator.
Continuing the programming vernacular, I was waiting to checkout at Best Buy in America like a month ago, and all the registers were empty forcing everyone to check out at customer service by the geek squad.
Someone came up behind me and asked if we were in the place to checkout. I replied, "Yes, this is the queue."
Shortly after that, he had the same conversation with the person behind him and also used the word "queue" to which the third person asked if he was British, and the second guy just said he repeated what I said so I had to chime in and say I wasn't British, just a programmer.
It bugs me a bit when people treat acceptable synonyms as foreign just because it's not the word or within the range of words they would've chosen.
I had something similar happen getting off a plane at London Heathrow. I asked airport staff where I could find the restrooms and they replied with a slightly confused look, "do you mean toilet?"
I thought the Brits used Loo? Toilet feels so crass lol
That's exactly what I thought! I figured that if airport/airline staff there were paid as poorly as in the US (with modern cost of living considerations), maybe it's more common than I thought at the time.
I don't get it. Are there other pronunciations for queue?
Their story is more about the choice of words. In America, we typically call it a "line". In England, it is typically called a "queue".
One I can’t stand is pronouncing regex as “rej-ecks.” I’ve also heard Redis pronounced “red-iss” which also sounds gross to me.
But that's "regular expressions", which shortened is rej-ecks. How else would you say it? "Rejects"?
"reg-ecks" with a g sound as in "get", after all that is how "regular" is pronounced
I think they mean the first syllable is pronounced "reg" like in "regular", not "rej" like in "reject". I'm in the rej camp personally. Saying reg is some gif jif shit that feels wrong
So you pronounce GIF as “jiff?” That sounds totally more wrong to me. It’s “graphics” not “jraphics.”
Oh sorry I can see how you would take it that way in the context. No I pronounce it like everyone else did before the creator decided it was JIF, which feels wrong to me. I meant that sentiment is how I feel about saying "reg ecks"
That's what they want you to think so they can keep all the giraffe gifs to themselves.
It's the dumb thing about English where g can be like Gremline or like Giraffe. So hard g. The redis one I don't get through text, though .
Edit: should've refreshed before posting since this was already answered (I opened this tab last night)
Reggecks.
Fortunately, although "rej-ecks" is common, so is the correct pronunciation.
As for "red-iss", I think that may be a losing battle. Wikipedia even lists that as the correct pronunciation. I think the rules start to fall apart when it is a project name, and when it smooshes together multiple words.
I sound out Wed-nes-day instead of saying Wends-day.
I hear most people say "library" and I do too, but I've met educated people who say "liberry."
Gotta say it with respect for our Lord Wōden. Wōden's day
"ee-NUUM" seems like it would roll of the tongue easier than the former and that's the way I would say it too because of what it's short for, so I get it!
Spoken language is about communication with the immediate group of people you're interacting with, and is fluid, so while I agree with the idea you suggest of enum on an intellectual level (as well as several others), using the generally accepted way to pronounce things verbally reduces misinterpretation, so I pronounce things as they are generally pronounced. Spoken language is too ephemeral to be imprecise or use your own flair, IMHO. It's a communication method that has shared rules, not a self-expression medium that is owned by you alone like what clothes you wear. There's way more wrong with how the English language pronounces things than a few niche technical terms, but those weren't decided by any one person. In fact that's why it's such a mess, but it's functional.
Just my opinion from a sociological and practical standpoint. Probably contributing to that, I'm AuDHD and so misinterpretation is something I've struggled with my whole life. So precise communication is something I've spent a lot of time perfecting, especially at work. For reference, I've been a software product analyst, product manager, engineer, and currently architect as well as I used to run a nonprofit focused on ethics in the software industry, so I have had to do a lot of communicating ideas around software at many different levels for decades with both technical and nontechnical people.
So, in my case, enum is programmer jargon and is not something that I'd pronounce at all to a layman or larger audience. I don't think anybody has ever misunderstood me. I often also simply say "enumeration". But again, that is still jargon. For a programmer, an enumeration is a data type, and for the layman, it probably just means something like "numbered things".
Spoken language is too ephemeral to be imprecise or use your own flair
I would say that this is a good rule of thumb.
But then, how do I put this? I think people who are on the spectrum are much more concerned with misinterpretation than neurotypical people. I understand why, as I've struggled with being misinterpreted in the past. Being misinterpreted feels like a major disaster. But I noticed that other people basically assume that they'll be understood, no matter how poorly their message is conveyed. I suspect that you've noticed the same thing. I don't go that far, but I definitely think there is room for self-expression.
In the end, if you understand and feel comfortable with the normal rules, then you can understand where it's okay to start to break them. Some estimates say that Shakespeare invented 1700 words in his written works. I'm sure that in the majority of those instances, he expected to be understood, despite using a word that nobody else had ever used.
Your fashion metaphor is actually a pretty good one, I think. There is room for expression, but there are also general guidelines to follow. In a typical office environment, nobody comes in to work nude or wearing a toilet seat around their neck. Okay that's extreme, but nobody wears tons of jewelry like Mr. T, either. What I'm saying is that, outside of high fashion like you see on runways, people do follow a basic set of clothing rules, some of which are social and not specifically practical, and their self-expression is only built on top of that base.
The basic rules for clothing are to conceal certain areas, to provide comfort and protection. That sort of basic thing. So with that, everybody's clothes serve that purpose. And then, like I said, there are some social rules. You know, like don't wear a white dress to a wedding. When people violate those rules, other people notice and are often confused. And once the basic purpose of clothing is met, then there are areas for flair. I would say that the same thing applies to language.
sudo is spoken soo-doo in my house. Where I live alone.
I pronounce it the same as you, and by the way, that's also the pronunciation listed on Wikipedia.
But I can't remember how other people that I've worked with pronounce it. I'm sure it's come up, but I just don't recall.
I think the fact that its configuration file is called sudoers is fairly decisive that other pronunciations are wrong.
Over time I switched to saying it like you. It's more internally consistent for me to pronounce all abbreviations the same as the words being abbreviated. That applies to enum, char, var, serde, num, regex, etc.