she acts like she doesn’t like me but she seems to? (Platonically)
yeah, i’ll probably seek advice on this community a lot now that I’ve found it.
so this girl nadya acts like she’s kind of avoiding but kind of not, it’s so weird. nadya and i used to be quite close since we met 3 years ago.
nadya has been really quiet lately though, specifically around me. she considers us friends and continues to talk to me, and will be normal sometimes. sometimes she smiles and waves back so i know she doesn’t HATE me.
anyway, i’m putting this under Lesbians bc i’m wlw (or more specifically, nblw) and i like this girl 😓
i guess what I’m trying to say is that she acts differently around me, but it doesn’t seem all negative?
I’m not certain she’s interested in me since this one “mean girl” thinks nadya likes her and very well may, but i wanna know what this might mean, especially as an enby with a sapphic crush 😅 (if i qualify as sapphic)
как ты??
ni li pona!!
(its fine!!)
i’m in the “avoiding her” stage, do u think my crush will go away soon 😅
jan li toki e ni: lipu nasa
(Weird post)
do I talk to her or just drop her?
my friend always thinks she’s better than everyone at everything. no matter what i do, I’m useless and horrible at everything to her, and she ditches me because I’m nerdy and not the most popular and because I don’t like sports. she hangs out with the popular girls and talks about me to them and why they should exclude me if I ask to hang out with them.
most of the time, though, she’s nice. it’s only usually in gym class, but it’s been happening a lot lately.
she’s usually nice to me and hangs out regardless of sports or my social status, but like I said, she’s been really rude lately.
she also pushes me and tells me to get out of her face but then says it’s “just a joke”…
i'm a no good loser to her and nothing I do is good enough for my friend
my friend always thinks she's better than everyone at everything. no matter what i do, I'm useless and horrible at everything to her, and she ditches me because I'm nerdy and not the most popular and because I don't like sports. she hangs out with the popular girls and talks about me to them and why they should exclude me if I ask to hang out with them.
most of the time, though, she's nice. it's only usually in gym class, but it's been happening a lot lately.
she's usually nice to me and hangs out regardless of sports or my social status, but like I said, she's been really rude lately.
she also pushes me and tells me to get out of her face but then says it's "just a joke"...
asking your crush what the answer to something is rather than figuring it out yourself just to talk to her 🥲
i think most people can relate to this 😅 lol
Is this “normal bratty” behavior or a sign of a mental health condition?
Someone I know shows stuff such as:
- constantly needing a scapegoat
- shifting blame/cannot take accountability
- exaggerated mindset, often where other people are useless and they are the greatest
- has to maintain a very positive public image, such as being the absolute best
- does not have empathy unless it involves them or impacts their image in some way, if their image is supposed to be empathetic they will act so because of their image
- lacks empathy for people in pain/bad mental health/etc. but their image might be very upset about that
- will often be very nice to people in any sort of power
I’m asking because I’m genuinely curious if I should help, and maybe that even if they exhibit negative behaviors, they’re not a completely TERRIBLE person despite how they treat me.
paixões em comum 😓
então nossa amiga lisa (14, mulher) tem 3 paixões: michael (14, homem), que tá namorando com a melhor amiga de lisa (elena), nadya (14m), com que tô (14nb) um pouco apaixonade, e nicky (14h).
lisa tá tentando flertar com michael e conversar mais com ele mesmo que ele namora pq lisa tá ciumenta e quer que michael fique apaixonado com lisa e termina com elena.
nicky e lisa tinham sentimentos mútuos um pelo outro. basicamente eles eram um casal em todas as maneiras exceto pra oficialidade, já que nenhum dos dois estava pronto pra ter um relacionamento.
bem, nicky preferiu jogar videogames do que passar um tempo com lisa. ela tava triste e parou de conversar com ele.
kristina (13m) gosta de nicky tbm mas acha q nicky não vai gostar dela tbm pq eles são amigos e ela acha q nicky acha q kristina é mais como uma irmã.
lisa perguntou a nicky se ele gostava de alguém e ele disse “não”, então lisa tá com medo de confessar a ele.
lisa gosta de nadya um pouco como já disse, mas eu tbm gosto
привет подростки
я Галактик, модератор.
мне 14 лет, мой день рождения 25 января (так что мне было 14 лет течение дня) 😊
:(
sina lape lon tenpo ni?
oooooooo!!
моя мачеха говорит по-польски но не может писать
sina toki pona mute?
(With fluency)
(i guess not every time but when it’s needed, sure :) )
sina ike ala la, sina ken pana e sona tawa mi
ni li lon, pali e tan sina 😅
mi lukin e ni: jan lon lipu ni toki e toki pona. mi lukin la, mi pali e kulupu ni.
sina ken ala lape tan seme?
o kama pona!
toki, jan li lon kulupu ni.
mi kama sona e toki pona 😊
i will post!! They’re new!!
How long have u been learning?
I think you’re probably fluent
Awesome!! What level r u?? N1??
Awesomeee!! is japanese ur first language?
ooo you know japanese?
mutual crushes… 😅
(sorry, i’ll probably post a lot to keep community active and because i have much to say)
[WARNING: LONG AND KINDA RANTY]
we’re all so similar to our friend lisa (14f) that it’s like we even find the same people attractive. we might as well be the same person, almost. like a hivemind.
first off, lisa had a friend (14m) nicky. nicky and lisa had mutual feelings for each other but lisa wasn’t ready to handle a real, comitted relationship yet.
they were basically a couple in everything but name. more than friends for sure, but only considered just friends for that reason.
anyway, nicky started spending less time with her and chose videogames over her, so they broke up.
our friend kristina (13f) is also good friends with nicky and liked him for a while, even after lisa stopped talking to him.
kristina likes everything about nicky, but she’s certain nicky doesn’t like her back because they’re really good friends and she thinks nicky sees her as more of a sister.
kristina is in our
omg, sina toki e toki pona! sina pilin seme?
friend (14f) wants her best friend’s bf (14m) to date her
my friend lisa has liked this one guy michael for a while now, even before michael met his gf ella.
michael is a good friend of hers that usually calls her and is in our friend group.
once ella came into town and moved here, lisa and ella became pretty close, and ella joined the friend group as well.
ella and michael also became pretty close, calling each other, talking every day, and the like. ella started to like michael, and lisa, hoping that michael was not interested, agreed to help her friend.
turns out michael did like ella, because they’re dating. now that he’s taken, lisa likes him more, because you know what they say: people want what they can’t have.
lisa tries talking to michael a lot and also hoping to take him from ella and get him to break up with her because she’s jealous of ella though, and she’s always like “heyyy michael 🤭 👀 how are youuu”
i get how it feels to have a crush, but what should i do if this continues to happen? should i just tell lisa that it’s w
i created “pan pals”
i thought it was a catchy name for a pansexual group, which I don’t see much of on lemmy, if at all.
what can it mean when a girl (a friend) suddenly acts odd ?
i don’t really need advice yet, it’s just a question. a girl im friends with acts really odd. we are friends, and we used to talk a lot, but then she started getting quieter, making less eye contact.
she also started being tenser/snippy at times.
when she’s not snippy, she’s just very quiet, which is most of the time. sometimes she’ll scoot over next to me but then scoot away, or act like she wants to sit by me but then goes away.
she doesn’t seem to be acting rude at all or mad at me. she will be nice, like smiling and waving and saying “hello”, or energetic when she can respond over text, so i don’t believe i’ve done anything to hurt her, but it’s just been really odd. what, from your experience, make a friend start acting this way? (especially girl because idk about guy friend behaviors)
most of the time, she acts normal, and i appreciate our friendship, and she seems to not hate me or anything like i said
update: i asked bc i was curious abt her behavior as friends, not jus