4d ago

My current experience dating as a trans woman

1st panel : spongebob in a stand caption reads "Single trans woman"
2nd panel : a huge crowd gathered around spongebob
3rd panel : spongebob adds a little paper on his table saying "I don't use my penis"
4th panel : the whole crowd left.

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i mean, don't use it how? Specifically putting it inside another person or like.. touching it at all?
because personally as a penis wielder i don't really have a desire to get bummed, but i'd quite like every other way of seeing a dick used.

Long time ago Ally McBeal aired an episode where everyone had a problem with a dude dating a trans person (not sure if the nomenclature).
They all had a problem with her having a dick. The dude dating her didn't have a problem with it. But somehow everyone made it into a problem where there wasn't one before.
I just don't understand how or why it was anyone else's business to begin with. Culture social whatever nonsense reason they used to get involved was weak and shallow.
Kinda showed how people will rationalize sticking their nose in where is doesn't belong.

I’m in this picture, and not as part of the crowd :/
Have my upvote.

Single trans men just get the 4th panel fml
- I dig dating trans men. I get to talk about motorcycles and guns and they usually want to help work on cars or motorcycles with me. Hang out in the woods and shoot rocks and in general do gross dangerous stuff together. For context I'm a cis bi sub
- Lots of gay and bi guys are into trans men. What is your experience?
  
  My experience is that gay men want penis and bi men want to bottom. I'm strictly a bottom so that's probably not helping my chances.
- This is why I've personally dropped it. I can't do HRT, bottom surgery is out, political trouble isn't worth it, and I've already been turned down just for using the pronouns he/him. To add, I am in fact a bottom and straight. That little bit of self love doesn't really feel worth it in my case.
  
  Valid, I stopped T a week ago after 15 years and I'm playing around with the idea of detransition. At this point I feel I would be happier.
  Edit: This is in no way an implication that anyone else should stop HRT or pursue detransition.
  
  I'm just a "tomboy" who got fixed and my tits chopped off, nothing to see here...
  
  Please don't take offense to this I'm just trying to follow: straight in this context means you're attracted to?

I'm a gigahon and way too ugly for any partner, appearently no man wants to date an ugly girl with a dick, that looks like a man

Can I use your penis? I mean, if you're not going to... 🤷🏻‍♂️

Wait until you say you don't have one or a libido
- Snuggling is better than fucking anyway
  
  to me they're basically the exact same thing, which i believe there's a term for but i can't remember for the life of me
  
  Amen 🙏🏻
  
  Agreed, I personally only like platonic cuddles :3
  
  Sure sounds better to me; id like to not think about my jumblies tyvm
- At some point I think it's just better not to tell people you're trans , like If you have a neovagina and pass there is literally no visible difference.
  
  Not if you're actually looking for a happy partnership. It's one thing if it actually doesn't come up, but if you're hiding it from a partner, well, you're hiding an aspect of your life from your partner.
  
  I have no desire to blend in to cishet society. I spent too long hiding in a closet to just get in to a new one, even if it is more comfortable than the old one
  
  Bottom surgery leaves a fair few scars, and neovagina's don't always function in the same way. This might work for trans women that are straight, but I doubt it would work for those that are sapphic. Someone's going to notice if they're eating you out (please enjoy my dumb joke about men not giving head).
  
  That sounds rather dangerous. There seems to be a not-insignificant number of people who would get irrationally angry at being tricked into having "gay sex" and thus being turned gay, and the only way they know to ungay themselves is through violence.
  
  But an audible one 💀 though the perception by others varies for me
  
  Thats so gross

Honestly I've been too agoraphobic since COVID to even really put in the effort. I have Bumble sitting on my phone with no profile filled out and that's as far as it's gotten.
But like, even the first panel sounds like kind of a boost. 😅

Moooood
Like, dude, I'm still down to penetrate you, as long as you don't mind me using a strap on

...I'll just have the first and fourth panels please... >_<
- I'll just be having you please >.<

Never realized chasers wanted to bottom, neat
- I mean, isn't that part of the whole thing? They want to get railed without it being gay?

Wait so all of these guys want back shots?
- Getting railed by a guy: GAY!!!
  Getting railed by a trans woman: straight but also woke
  🤷‍♂️
  
  I mean if some calls that also gay, that is transphobic.
  
  Achieving public acceptance, one pounding at a time
- I'd let a dude rail me but he has to be cute and play video games with me after

Are people actually that sex-centered?
- You'd get a pretty similar bottom right as a straight cis guy or girl if you wrote "I don't use my penis/vagina", maybe a few more than zero, but not much.
  
  Please hyphenate the words "bottom" and "right"...it took me too many tries to figure out how to parse that in this context.
- More than you would think, my previous partner evidently was. she was pretty great but never understood my bottom dysphoria. and always assumed I had "male" desires.
- Not trans but I think the issue is more that there's a lot of chasers. My opinion comes entirely from the many I saw on Grindr so take that with a metric ton of salt.

Wild... Those people are missing out!

That's why I got a strap-on

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