I don't even chat privately online with anyone, I only get hurt and rejected.
I don't even try private chat with people online, I'll only get hurt
But it is true. I'm not writing a prophecy. I've been like this for decades now
I'm not sure how online dating was worse before, if anything is worse now due how many tiers and payments apps ask. Back then was cheaper and just one thing
Sounds like you are doing good despite being single, I don't have any friends and my only hobby is videogames, is literally the only thing that I like and even that is decreasing
People in general just don't like me, simple as that.
I honestly don't want friends. I just don't wanna socialise, is just too much for me, I want to be engaged with a single woman and maybe create a family in a far future. That's it
Don't bother with tinder, they want your money first and it won't work unless you're a 7 or more. We're European neighbours btw (less than 1000 km)
Yeah I'm not going to get better. Like you said, it is unfortunate.
And that's the problem for many, we just don't have friends, we don't connect with anyone, social activities just ruin my day, I don't have a job and forcing myself at being more "normal" feels like a job. Is not natural. I wish people would understand me and some girl would just synch with me under those conditions, because I can be cuddly and likeable enough with one person. But I know that is not going to happen.
Is just too much to handle and if it ends bad feels like a death sentence
The final purpose is to reproduce, in theory. And I would like to be a father, I feel like I could become a decent one
It's been decades since I got a friend
I used to like being drunk (helps with depression) but I don't want to get fat so I cut it
You at least did something for a while, I'm still at step 0 and don't see that changing anymore, especially at my age.
I saw that other post about worst dates and honestly can't relate since I've never dated anyone, I just wanted to know if I was the only one here. That's it, you don't have to go deeper if you don't want to
Yeah it's just impossible, still sucks though, I'm sure I can give love, time and affection to someone out there but I'm just trapped. And seeing the very few people that you know (even in your family, like your siblings) getting in couples and even getting married while being 10 years younger than you feels like being poked to death.
After a while you stop feeling better, like after the 100th time you see a couple, or when you see your younger brother with his 4th girlfriend. I would take the slap. At least I'm being touched
I disagree on that last part that's not the worst that can happen
I'm doing the driving lessons and I dread them every time. I don't feel like I'm improving much and it's just stressful. I feel like giving up. I'm only going because I passed the theory exam with that school, and i would had to spend more money (that I don't have) if I start again with other school, basically I'm too deep into it to stop.
Btw I now understand the hate towards manual cars. Automatic should be the only option, one less BIG distraction on the road, especially when you're new on these things, being too soft or too rough on the clutch is a matter of millimeters is ridiculous, watching the road, the signs, the traffic lights, the cars around you, the stupid people with their bikes, while fumbling in the car with the pedals is the worst... (unfortunately you must learn manual where I'm living).