4d ago

confession

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Girlies I must confess I'm not a real femcel
I'm a man
- Okay confession time.
  I'm three racoons in a trenchcoat
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  🎩 🦝 🦝💐 🦝
  
  Oh yeah? Well im a crow piloting a meatsuit! CAW, MOTHERFUCKERS!
  🐦‍⬛
  🤖CAW!
- I must also confess I'm a man, I just like these memes
- So you are government robot?
  I was joking here, but as long as you are not one of those incels who just straight up hate on all women and men and call them stupid names, and just enjoy shitposting and memes you are good.
  
  I like to think I'm the inverse of the typical incel, I shit on myself not women! Lol
  ...not literally, but I won't kink shame. :P
- I just think FEMCEL MEMES are pretty neat
- Move to the US, problem solved.
- Considering the gender ratio of online spaces, it's often likely that posters, commenters, and voters are men.
  I'm a man too.
- So just an involuntary celibate then? Same bro

If your banned I'm definitely banned. I'm a dude I just like the memes

I must confess
I'm a m*le
- No shame there. Mules are hard working.
- It's ok you can change that

I usually put on a brave face here, but I must admit that I'm still a lil sad that I've never experienced a relationship; less for the sex and more for the connection. I don't truly know if anyone I've met in person has ever been into me (except for the person who gave me unwanted massages, but that isn't the same) >_<
- This whole time I just assumed you were lonely depression posting ironically. Your brave face is effective.
  <3 take care I wish you the best <3
  
  It mostly is ironic. I'm in a good place overall, but I still have these moments. The "brave face" is more about me being bold and not a shy lil bean >~<
- :( I really feel this. I'm so horribly lonely and touch starved, but it's so scary and uncomfortable to try to "put myself out there" and it feels so awkward and wrong to actively flirt with / pursue someone.
  I don't know how old you are, but I've been out of school for a few years and it feels like I've missed my opportunity of finding a relationship when I was surrounded by people. Now I can barely leave the house, and even if I did actually meet someone I don't see how people my age who have been in 5+ relationships would even be interested.
  Also I've at least been in a "relationship" when I was a kid, and just having a fuzzy memory of what it's like to cuddle and kiss someone makes it feel worse to be alone. So I don't think having something in the past always helps.
  Anyway I hope you find love some day.
  
  I hope you do too ❤
- Oof, that hit me harder than I expected. I imagine love is one of those things that get easier once you've done it once and know how to recognize it, but right now I wouldn't know what it's like at all. I've never in my life been in a situation where I thought I could make a move. I must have missed at least one opportunity, I refuse to believe I've never even stood a chance.
  Have you tried group travel? It allows you to interact with new people without any expectations. It's also very low stakes because you don't have to see any of those people again after the trip.
  
  After being a semi-whore in high school and having a long term ex: the only thing that's changed for me is I no longer want people who are into me because they're also lonely. It never lasts, or ends well, or goes well once they stop feeling lonely. I've never had someone tell me I'm a bad person or I could do something better, I just wasn't what they actually want. And I have not leanred how love works in the slightest either lol
- Too real for my horny depressed lemmy
- Preach sister
  It's one thing to have someone online say they care about you and intellectually accept it and another to have someone casually hold on and make you feel ok
  I hate balancing the mental equation of "how much do I hurt now vs how much could I hurt really trying to find someone and failing" and wondering if I'm even really capable of accepting affection
  Being torn by desperately not wanting to hurt people and being terrified they'll like me more than I like them while simultaneously being way too attached to anyone who shows me affection
  Knowing odds are very good the more someone gets to know me the less they'll like me
  Knowing that if I miraculously find someone I'm compatible with I just don't have the energy to put into a relationship to make it work
  Personally, I'm done trying. I know you'll get there though, you have an incrediblely tenacious spirit, of my chats with you are anything to go by
  
  I do have tenacity, but I wasn't born with it. My spirit was next to nonexistent for most of my life, ravaged by dysphoria and self hatred. Getting a hold on my dysphoria might've been essential to building myself, but it wasn't the only part. To truly want to fight for myself, I needed to love myself.
- <3

banned
no but really, its more of a vibe here than a rule, were all horny depressed girlies with a passion for sharing dumb memes and making each other smile, and i wouldnt want it any other way :3
- banned
  ur one to talk :3
  
  who me? :3c
  i dunno what ur talking bout
- I love the horniness on this sub , and also I have to confess I m an incel(involuntary celibate) not a femcel 😭.sorry I lied to all of you

i have to confess... i am a boy.
- I have to confess, I thought this com was about nanobiotech

Well, shit. Transfem here and my wife just pegged me last night. Do I have to unsub?
- Nah, as long as you appreciate the lonely+horny+sad vibe
  
  That's not even fem specific! Anyone can be a femcel!
  Especially now that everyone in the US is a woman by definition.

I must confess, I'm.... Well I'm in some sort of Ace and kinda Aro relationship so I still yearn for someone to kiss me (lucky me that it's an open relationship but I'm not gonna find anyone who wants to kiss me)
!my gf does sometimes play with my tits tho and it's the fucking best feeling ever!<
Edit: spelling
- what is Aero here? :o or is it just Aro? >v<
  
  Ah shit I should really learn how to spell (or disable autocorrect)...
  Yeah I meant Aromantic

I've had real sex, but as a man, because I'll never br a real woman ;(
- You can be if it's what you want!
- "I'll never be a real woman"
  real woman :3

Alright brag much, sheesh

Wait..... is this not a trans community?? 🙃❓️
- it's fairly trans, but not totally. Cisfem perspectives are welcome, as are those of feminine boys
- I know there's a lot of trans who frequent here but the femcel concept has nothing to do with trans I thought?
  
  I'd prefer if you didn't refer to us as "trans." We're people :)