What's the smartest or most insightful thing you figured out as a kid that stays with you today?
What's the smartest or most insightful thing you figured out as a kid that stays with you today?
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I used to spend a lot of energy being concerned what other people thought of me. How I dressed, how I acted, what I owned, etc. One day I realized 2 things:
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Most people are too busy thinking about themselves to spare any meaningful thoughts for me.
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I'm never going to see most of these people ever again so it doesn't matter what they think.
After that I started directing that energy into making sure that I approved of my choices rather than hoping strangers would.
It has a name its called spotlight effect
Some people have decided to call it the spotlight effect
I just wanted to let op know its a thing and there are others with it and there are resources
Why are you wearing those pants?
Why aren't you more like your father?
Why haven't you liked and subscribed?
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