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  • I don't get it, who are they getting ad revenue from? Thought it was just random people using their website to sell their stuff, why would they care about how "politically correct" the website is? They can just find literally anywhere else to advertise

  • No, I don't think that has always been the case at all. When I was looking back at old posts people would be completely shocked if someone would get banned from 4chan, because it would be very hard to get banned and you'd have to do something really bad. That's just not the case anymore. I've also heard of people paying for a pass and getting banned for bs reasons too.

  • You're not wrong but it doesn't make it less devastating. I've been using it for years and not even gotten banned a single time. And now in the past few weeks this, and then I check the rules and it all makes sense. I always saw it as a fall back option when I wanted to talk to someone. It used to be reddit but I got banned for some complete bs, it used to be discord but they totally ruined it too... Then I thought I at least had 4chan but no longer

  • maybe, but the rules were never like this. I've tried searching the web about people being unfairly banned and I barely found anything. They're definitely changing things.

    It's messed up to get banned for life without any warning, explanation or second chances. Literally how would anyone know the rules have changed unless they read them every day?

    It's gonna be hard for people to find out though, because most search results on Google are reddit ones, and people who go on 4chan are much more likely to be banned from reddit. So that's why I wanted to post this here. I know I'm not the only one and I suspect alternative websites will only grow in the future.

  • Ultimately I think it was just how easy he was to get along with and how much fun we had together. He was also open minded and loved to discuss and brainstorm and ponder about things which I love too. Most people don't care about anything I have to say. Thanks for the thoughtful response.

  • I don't believe in the one true love bs. I thought that about my first real boyfriend. Then I got over that eventually.

    The point is this person was objectively better than most. That's different. It's not even about love.

    Anyway I've never liked this line of thinking, it's very just world fallacy-esque. "Its your fault if things don't work out because you brought this upon yourself and deserve it" no thanks

  • You're right, but where I live the people are very closed minded and most of the expats are married and older with kids and family or are digital nomads who plan to leave soon/live in their coliving spaces and only interact with other nomads 💀

  • I think you should take it easy on that.. word will eventually get around and it's not good for your career to be doing that imo. Especially if you have any more misunderstandings with people.

    Even though you don't think you did anything wrong you are still ashamed of people finding out, so I think the only solution to that is to stop having e-sex with people in that way

  • Can you explain what exactly people should improve on? I had a relationship with someone I really liked not work out and as much as I reflect back on it I don't really know what I should have done differently.

  • Idk. My partners have pretty much never needed to vent or share anything with me. If they have it was very minor. That's what made me feel like I should get a therapist instead. It would be mostly just me venting.

    I found that my partner who was empathic felt very bad any time I told him how I was feeling, so this weighed much more heavily on him than my partner who lacked empathy. He was just annoyed and didn't care about my stuff and wanted me to not talk.