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Ladies, do you find that when your boyfriend/husband has a a bit too much to drink that it takes them forever to cum?
  • As far as I know, “whiskey dick” refers to not being able to get it up, losing your erection, or having a partial erection due to drunkenness.

    To your original question, alcohol/drunkenness will often make a guy last longer. I think this is a relatively well known phenomenon.

    One reason is desensitization: alcohol tends to numb sensations. This leads to needing harder oand/or longer stimulation to get off.

    Another reason is mental state: alcohol tends to help people let go of inhibitions and nerves. Guys (really, people in general) can get anxious about their performance. Worry about cumming too fast is often self fulfilling; the anxiety and focus on the problem makes it happen. Alcohol usually lowers anxiety, keeping that vicious cycle at bay. It’s the same with erection issues. Alcohol can quell anxiety and make it easier to get it up… but it’s also walking a tightrope; too much alcohol and whiskey dick may occur.

    Edit: oops, I’m not a lady. Just a dude who has experienced of all these things :p

  • McKayla Maroney [Gymnast]
  • Her butt is so phat the gravitational pull warps floors.

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    Even though you have always considered yourself as a heterosexual only adult have you ever had what would be considered a Bi or Gay experience?
  • It looks like an oddly worded way to ask a question to straight people. I think the first part of the title would work better as something like “Straight identifying people, have you ever…” or the question could have been asked more generally like “have you ever had a sexual experience that didn’t match with your sexual identity? How did it go?”

  • An update on our community regarding downvotes
  • A workaround for you: upvote twice (ie upvote and remove the upvote) to get the post marked as read.

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    Why users downvote SFW content?
  • There have been meta discussions on this topic and there really isn’t a clear answer. It quickly devolves into “how do you define NSFW”. And there are good arguments for a broad variety of answers there.

    Looking at OP’s particular kink as an example, one argument is that, even though you’re showing completely clothed people, you probably shouldn’t be showing pictures of sexy girls wearing watches on your work computer. It isn’t porn, but I think your coworkers would quickly see that you are getting a sexual kick out of it regardless. on the other hand, most people consider this a porn instance. There are a lot of things that aren’t safe for work that really don’t fit with what most people consider the purpose of this instance (porn).

    As I recall, the instance doesn’t prohibit SFW content. It’s just that people here aren’t looking for SFW content and a lot of them are going to downvote SFW content because they don’t want to see it. The instance could try to tell people not to downvote these posts, but that’s not going to do much to change behavior. While some people do follow such guidelines, most aren’t going to follow upvote/downvote guidelines and are going to vote as they wish.

  • Do you think all men should get vasectomies at a young age?
  • OP is in the process of “discovering” eugenics. Good times.

  • [M] beginner looking for g-spot toy advice
  • OP, first thing is terminology. Yes, cosmo and the like have referred to the prostate as “the male g-spot”, but you’re better off using accurate terminology. You are looking for a “prostate massager”, “prostate toy”, or “prostate wand”. You’ll have an easier time finding products if you use those terms.

  • any collar communities?
  • https://lemmynsfw.com/c/collared

    Only 3 posts, but I think this is the only one.

    Testing alternate link format:

    !collared@lemmynsfw.com

  • Most uniquely popular Halloween candies in the US
  • Op, you should add “uniquely” to the post title. That word in the title on the infographic is important. This is not showing the most popular Halloween candy, it’s showing candy that is much more popular there than the national average.

    As an example, let’s say tootsie rolls are the 30th most popular candy in the us. But in the state of Stateland, it’s the 10th most popular, which makes it Stateland’s biggest deviation from the national popularity. This makes it Stateland’s most uniquely popular candy because it is much more popular there relative to the overall us. Snickers is actually the most popular in Stateland, but tootsie rolls show up on the chart as the state’s most uniquely popular Halloween candy.

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    Orange cheeks
  • Edited and she’s wearing butt pads.

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    Are there things you like irl which turn you off in porn?
  • Director: “No, not like that! We need to see your tongues!”

    actors proceed to stick out their tongues and flick together

    Director: “Yes, perfect!”

    Me: … bye.

  • Fighting pedophilia at the expense of our privacy: The EU rule that could break the internet
  • This is nothing new fighting pedophilia and human trafficking are the smokescreen used to enact most laws controlling the internet.

    Edit to fill in what I’m implying: these laws (eg FOSTA-SESTA) are either ineffective or counterproductive in their stated goal, while simultaneously having broad add-on effects, generally harming free speech.

    FOSTA-SESTA makes sex work less safe for those who are not trafficked. Meanwhile it pushes actual traffickers “underground” and off the internet, making it much harder for law enforcement to find and successfully prosecute them. Bonus: the law has been used to push sex education and general discussion of sex and sexuality off of major websites.

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    Is this the right community? I have a helpdesk interview next week and I dont know if my attire looks good or ridiculously goofy.
  • Another older fart here. As others have said, you look good! Wearing it a few times to get used to it is a great tip.

    Especially since they are inexpensive clothes, if you need to clean them, wash and dry them carefully. Dunno your setup, but make sure the washer is set to cold or the low side of warm. Dry medium and don’t over dry. If the washer and dryer have a “permanent press” setting, that should work ok. Immediately hang them; don’t let them sit in the dryer.

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    Amateur Blonde Bubble Butt Cowgirl Creampie Cumshot JiggleFuck Pawg Real Couple Riding Porn GIF by floridajuicy
  • It looks like OP is just copy-pasting from the source title (which sounds like an Amazon listing). OP, it would be cool if you could… not use those titles :)

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    Any fun toys you’ve been playing with lately?
  • Yes, “Nitrile Rubber”, not to be confused with natural/latex rubber, butyl rubber, etc.

    Nitrile is the standard material for latex-free exam gloves.

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    Any fun toys you’ve been playing with lately?
  • I’m a fan of nitrile. Silicone is easy to fit because it tends to have a lot of stretch, but I find it also tends to pinch a bit because of that stretch. Nitrile is still relatively soft and has some stretch, but quite a bit less than silicone. Less stretch means you need to buy the right size, but they are inexpensive and you can get multipacks to figure out what size you need.

  • Silicone Penetratable Toys?
  • I’m curious what you found. I only found one - the alien stroker - it looks like it could be 100% silicone, but noticeably the description doesn’t clarify whether it is a blend or not. And there are 0 reviews.

    FYI, if it is 100% silicone, you can boil it to clean it. If it is a blend (or not silicone at all), boiling should fuck it up.

  • [bug] images partially loading, will not reload

    On iOS. Currently on version 25.0, but I have been seeing this issue on the last several versions.

    Sometimes when I load a feed, many images will partially load or not load at all. By partially load, I mean that some portion of the top of the image will load, but the rest will appear black.

    When this happens, I cannot get the image to show in the app. Opening the post itself will show the partially loaded image. Refreshing the post will do the same. Going back and picking the feed again will still show the partial images.

    If I view the post using the web link, the image usually loads immediately there.

    It appears to me that the images become cached by the app and it will not attempt to retrieve the image again.

    Do others experience this bug or am I the lucky winner?

    Edit: here is a workaround that is working for me: Switch to another app then back to voyager. If your iPhone has no home button, just swipe right on the bottom bar to go to the previous app then swipe left to get back to voyager. This has been working for me and is super quick.

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