How do you react to the phrase we all hate "can you finish now?"

It's not often but I hear this occasionally from my partner. She is not in a rush to do something else, she's just had enough of getting fucked.

She doesn't seem to realize that the negative feelings of that phrase actually inhibit you from cumming.

A better line would be, "I'm feeling a bit dry. Would you mind releasing your load into me now?"

Now that phrase would trigger a quick finish