How do you react to the phrase we all hate "can you finish now?"
How do you react to the phrase we all hate "can you finish now?"
It's not often but I hear this occasionally from my partner. She is not in a rush to do something else, she's just had enough of getting fucked.
She doesn't seem to realize that the negative feelings of that phrase actually inhibit you from cumming.
A better line would be, "I'm feeling a bit dry. Would you mind releasing your load into me now?"
Now that phrase would trigger a quick finish
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My first girlfriend would say "are you done?" "Do you have a lot left?"
Had a few partners since and I don't remember any of them saying anything like that. If my partner treats sex like a chore then I'm not sure if we are compatible.
It might not be that. My wife used to say stuff like that, but that's because after ~10-15m she starts to get sore. Basically she's asking me to hurry up while she's still enjoying it.
She does phrase it better now, saying things like, "I want you to cum for me," or, "I want you to fill me up," which does help mentally.