Anon overestimates their mass

be me
was kinda popular in HS
our friend group had an orbiter and we all stuck around after graduation
now in college
orbiter has gotten closer with some members of the friend group I guess
he gets on my nerves because he can't just find his own group
last week he texts me
"hey man do you wanna grab lunch together? I'm buying"
think he's just trying to suck up to me
say sure but blow him off
he texts me again a couple days later
"we can just grab a beer if you want, I just wanna catch up"
why wont this guy take the hint
just leave him on read
ffw like two weeks
find out from my friends that he asked each of us individually if we wanted to grab dinner
everybody else said yes
find out he got a big inheritance and gave each of them around $1000
his "best friend" he bought a new phone and gave him $4000 for tuition

guys i fucked up bad. 1000 dollars would unironically change my life right now