Just the engagement in general. On reddit, if you try to join a discussion after a post is more than an hour old, you might as well not comment at all because no one will see it anyway. On lemmy, you can have a great exchange and more meaningful discussion even if a post is more than a day old.
Yes! I hated that on reddit. I would sometimes have a cool thing to add, but because the thread was 8 hours old and had a thousand comments already, virtually no one would see it. There were some exceptions: on TV episode discussions sometimes they'd use new/contest mode default sorting for the thread and you didn't feel like you were shouting into a void.
The hack on reddit used to be to hijack a top comment. Post something vaguely related to that comment, then add whatever you wanna add. It's silly that this was required at all.
I honestly think that has to do with the fact that everyone on the fediverse has the ability to immediately block bad actors and never see them again. If there's enough brigading happening, that server can be defederated. Those same toxic people exist here, they're just shunted to their own inaccessible islands.
@Fake4000 yeah, I'm having tons of positive experiences, but I will never forget the magical moment I got my first replies on kbin from people on lemmy and mastodon!
Other than the better discussion and nicer people that other commenters already mentioned, I've also seen a lot less of the same boring memey replies that permeate every post on Reddit now.
Yeah, I'm sadly guilty of bringing some of that meme-reply bullshit here, and I've decided I'm going to stop. I wish there was like a patch or a pill I could take, like they have for smoking. Maybe just downvotes to meme-replies would suffice for me.
Those replies have their place when used infrequently, the repetition is when it gets annoying. Also, with subreddits hitting millions of users, it just becomes a feedback loop when those replies keep getting thousands of upvotes, and other people start parroting it.
Don't beat yourself up though, a lot of times you just grow out of it.
If we could convince devs/ make a fork that would enable to add a "haha funny" reaction instead of general upvote it could split comments into meme comments and helpful comments
The people are like actually modern in their heads. No, Trump is not nice. No, this is not a place for racist sexist climate-fucking cowards. Sorry for the language, but I am pretty happy Lemmy is kind of a bubble
Found some niche communities with people who do really enjoy sharing some knowledge, artisans and artist. They have a communal spirit that makes my heart go warm.
!diy@slrpnk.net in particular comes to mind, but also programming stuff like my community !haxe@programming.dev, and various niche fermentation/tatting/etc ones
The best experiences I've had over here were those where I really connected with others. Being seen as not just another comment but as a real person is always a great experience.
Other positive experiences are when an entire community is completely invested in an idea. For example, a few weeks back we had this post over at the !imageai@sh.itjust.works community where everyone was encouraged to generate an image based on their username. I loved the energy that it created, everyone was going all in! Some were asking for help and there was always someone around to help out. It had such a positive vibe, I really really loved it.