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Banana mega! Trans Megathread from April 28th, 2025 to May 4th, 2025

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  • hi, does anyone wanna make the mega in the upcoming weeks? if so, reply to this post and i'll add you to the list!

    the list as it stands:

     
            Hestia (5/5 - 5/11)
    EstraDoll* (5/12 - 5/18)
    SadArtemis* (5/19 - 5/25)
    yewler* (5/26 - 6/1)
    AshenWolf* (6/2 - 6/8)
    PeeNutButtHer (6/9 - 6/15)
    oscardejarjayes* (6/16 - 6/22)
    GayTuckerCarlson* (6/23 - 6/29)
    Eco* (6/30 - 7/6)
    Disaster_of_Passion (7/7 - 7/13)
    peanutbuttercupola* (7/14 - 7/20)
    BountifulEggnog* (7/21 - 7/27)

    ​ * after name denotes someone who has posted before and will be skipped by first-time posters

  • day 4 of intense effort to choose a new name. my external deadline is less than a week away. i have three tentative names, and one of them is being put through the ultimate test.

    playing through Celeste for the first time with myself named it.

  • Hanging out with the homies as we smoke our massive communal joint

    I get handed the aux chord and put on "State and Revolution"
    everyone loves it and young stalin kisses me on the mouth

  • lately I've been tempted to get a PS5, but I'll think I'll refrain, not because it doesn't have games I'm interested in (it does), but just because it's ugly

  • My coworkers were talking about pensions today. They're a little closer to retirement (within the next 10 years). Cause I started later in life, they told me I'd probably be working 30 full years (until I'm well into my 60s). They wondered what I'd do about it all. I told em "does 2055 sound like it'll be good years going forward from that or bad." And that's probably the biggest difference between generations (as real as they are) lol. One hand you have something stable but you had to work for, the other feels like the end of a thread of an unraveling sweater

  • yawns and stretches another successful day of oversharing now its time to sleep soundl- ooohhhuuughghgggggghhhhhh noooooooooooooooo what have i done

  • If you can suppress the urge to cringe and instead look onward with wide eyes and a smile that goes to your eyes then you know you're doing your inner child proud.

  • My style is to worry so much I get a tummy ache

    and then it usually being a nothing burger. Hope it's a nothing burger since I wanna enjoy my lazy sunday and I can't do anything about it till tomorrow anyway

  • So this is capeshit, my mom is watching end game and it's the part where the bow guy and Scarlett Johansen have to figure out who's gonna be sacrificed to get the soul stone. Doesn't Bow Guy... have a wife and kids? When it's time to recount the story, is he gonna tell them that he sacrificed the one he loved the most - Scarlett Johansen?

  • Old Pokemon anime would just drop the line "ever since the animals disappeared and the Pokemon arrived..." and just move on like it's whatever. I know this line get retconed with the later games but I do idea that Pokemon just appeared recently and everyone is just so what they can to research them and understand them adds more mysticism that I like

  • I thinks it's been about 9 or 10 months since I started wearing wired bras and I'm finally outgrowing my A-cups

    I honestly thought they would stay that way forever since I haven't gotten much new growth since around january, but guess I was wrong.

  • Soooooo I’m definitely coming out at work after over 2 years of being in the closet. Out on medical leave right now and I’m pretty nervous to do it, should I just send an email? Or something? Change my picture on slack and show up in a dress? Idk haha

  • I was just chatting with an online friend (one who I don't talk to a whole lot but recently started chatting with more). I usually communicate with her by text, but I sent her a voice recording tonight.

    She said, "Oh, cool! I like your voice."

    And then I said, "Yeah, I'm still trying to sound less masculine, but I like my progress."

    Then she said, "Wait, what do you mean?"

    I said, "I'm training my voice to sound less masculine. It's very common for trans people to do!"

    Then she said, "Wait, you're trans?"

    I said, "Yeah, wait a minute, did you not know?"

    Then she said, "No. I seriously did not!"

    I thought she knew this whole time! She has seen multiple pictures of me, and my bio has a πŸ³οΈβ€βš§οΈ in it even!

    And I said, "That's crazy. I never thought I looked feminine enough for people to basically assume I'm a cis woman."

    She said, "Well, you obviously look very feminine to me."

    Not only that, though, but she said this ALL after hearing me speak. And her initial reaction wasn't, "Wow, your voice is deeper than I was expecting" or anything like that... she just liked it and didn't question it. I guess that means that not only do I look more feminine than I think, but my voice sounds more feminine than I think too.

    We laughed for a bit, and I ultimately let her know it's a very good, validating thing. Shit's crazy.

  • No one told me that fat redistribution would absolutely wreck the thighs of my work jeans.

    I run back and forth between welding machines, about four miles every night. After only one year of doing this all my work jeans have worn through the thighs and I've had to sew patches into them! This is bullshit. That's like several hundred dollars a year if I have to buy new ones (and I definitely will soon, the patches need patches now).

  • I miss playing shadow reloaded

    after my first Wii died the second one I had I tried to homebrew but I had issues with it and just kinda stopped. That game was comfort slop even if 1.0 was ballbustingly hard it was goated. Now I remember the update of reloaded used a custom version of nintendont that I could never figure out. Might give it another go later and stick to 1.0 since I hope my progress is still on the GC memory card. I remember I was A ranking it all and it was very difficult with the revised scoring system added

  • found a surgeon offering facial feminization and masculinization here, even though i dont think it's legal. genuinely want to talk to him and ask him what he's doing but i also don't want to attract attention

  • getting out of my time machine in 238 AD to warn Emperor Pupienus that his name will sound exceptionally silly in 1800 years (i will not warn him of his oncoming assassination)

  • I am stuck at home due to recovering from a non-transition related minor operation. Not too much discomfort, but I have to lay on my side most of the day so all I can really do is text, read and watch TV/movies. Would love film recs, especially ones that give gender feels.

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