My go to is Sunshine (server) and Moonlight (client). It's meant for gaming so latency is incredibly low. Never seen anything better.
I run xrdp on a terminal server for work
No Wayland support currently
hmm, doesn't KRdp run on that though? The only issue is that you usually have to kick off an initial login session for it to run in iirc
I have been using Rustdesk. Works with Wayland but only with one monitor, I can't switch to another. But other than that works great and they even have selfhosted option for relay server.
Unattended
Don't use Rustdesk as it introduces a major risk into your environment.
Please elaborate on this. What risks are introduces?
KRDP is what you want
https://cubiclenate.com/2024/01/06/remote-desktop-krdp-server-with-plasma-wayland/