It should be total FU money. The state should give him free healthcare, free public transportation, free legal services, free public utilities, and free internet.
Probably a duh statement for most on here, but here goes.
Don't worry too much about your relationship status. Do what you love, chase your interests, and your personal relationships will happen, platonic or romantic.
Adding my farewell to RIF. It served me well for many years. Sad to see it go. Thank you to everyone behind the app (if you ever read this). You were there when I was bored, sick, or needed answers.