drbollocks @ drbollocks @lemmy.blahaj.zone Posts 3Comments 10Joined 6 days ago
we are poly, kinda. the agreement is that we have to know the person and/or know about them before we can date them or it’s considered cheating.
for example, she has a gf. i know of the gf: i know she has one and i’ve talked to her before, so this is alright. she has spoken to my ex a little when i dated him (before i figured out i wasn’t into guys) and knows he dated me.
i have, she says she’s sorry but then continues
she hardly ever talks to me anymore. usually she’s too busy to hang out with me, doesn’t invite me to play with her, and doesn’t seem interested when i wanna play a game or “forgets”. thank you so much, though 🫂
i try to be interested in her hobbies but she doesn’t pick up the conversation or “doesn’t see” my messages, and she doesn’t try to be interested in mine in return, usually I either get a “that’s nice”, she laughs at it, or is like “oh! that’s not…” or even just “… ok”
i should also say lately shes had romantic messages about guys but “can’t tell me” who she’s talking about. at first I thought she was referring to me. flirtatiously I asked, “who are you referring to 🤭” and her response was “i can’t tell you…”
she also seemed rather guilty and avoidant. i also found out she was referring to some guy and talking about how she wanted him to get her pregnant??
i know bilingual people who DON’T read english
update: now this user is a grown woman who has a girlfriend 🎉
if no one sees this, try an advice community or an lgbt one (bisexual, lgbtq+, etc). like i said but i think u deleted it, he may not treat u like his other friends because he doesn’t view you as a friend ?
he seems to like u but idk if it’s platonic or not
hmm… is it possible he flirts with all his friends but doesn’t flirt with you because he doesn’t view you as a friend ?
just speculation, he seems to like you, but it might be in a different way than a friendship way from all i see in this post
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