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Tribalism. They'll find a way to think Trump is good, because that is a necessity for tribal membership for them.

OP is a tankie USSR apologist. No reasoning with them.

Young people are struggling with mental health and relationships, but there are small shifts in beliefs and behaviors that could help.

Gotta disagree here. They always sell the "quick fix", but the reality is that changing your beliefs about the world is no small thing.

Their lack of representation in any zeitgeist I've encountered is kind of OP's point.

Sorry, I'm a kinky fuck, but I'm not that kinky

But muh violent revolution against the capitalists!!!

This is a great point, until you want to ask your hot date to come home with you.

Everything I've ever heard about femboys has (a) been exclusively online and (b) implied they take it up the ass. Not saying there is anything wrong with this, but effeminate gay men is the opposite of what OP is talking about.

The issue is that you presume the options are either public housing or a tent. You are missing the other option, which is simply allowing developers to build more housing on their own and removing the ability to speculate on land value, forcing land owners to earn an income only by the benefit their land provides to others. Zoning reform, good urban infrastructure, and Georgist tax policy do this without necessitating terrible concrete commie blocks everywhere

This seems true only on short time scales, and in corporate work structures. On long time scales and with more collaborative, voluntary work structures, a group of people working together and supporting each other will almost certainly outperform a disorganized collection of non-communicative individuals. We can see this is true because, yaknow, society exists.

Thank God someone in this thread actually knows how HOAs work.

I’ve learned that i’m a LOT less sexual than a lot of my peers so I just don’t get it.

This is probably the differentiating factor. I am a highly sexual person.

You would be categorized in the study as "childless" - wanting children but being unable to have them - and thus would not be part of the headline statistic.

You're fitting the problem to the things you want it to address. As someone who was formerly a young man, I can tell you that I didn't care about owning a house, healthcare was an ephemeral thing I didn't think about, and making fast food wages was good enough for me. But I did care a lot about the fact that I wasn't getting laid.

Ironically, this comment supports Rogan's point. Shaming people for using a particular word is pointless, because the word is just a word. The insult is being called mentally handicapped, regardless of the actual word used. The argument against using the word was to remove the stigma against people with mental disabilities - but people will just come up with a new word. If you are insulting Rogan by insinuating that it is bad to be mentally handicapped, then you are perpetuating that stigma regardless of the particular word.

Thanks I hate it.

I'm honestly wondering if this post isn't just missing the forest for the trees. Like, what if it really is all about just guys not getting laid?

Like, OOP goes to college, spends time with lots of women, goes to parties, and sleeps with some of them. His view is now that society is reasonably just, since he now has a reasonable expectation that he will be able to have sex.

I mean, we can think about the various manosphere spaces: the red pill - treat women badly to get sex; mgtow - give up on relationships with women and just do your own thing; incels - just give up, you were doomed to l be a virgin from the start; "male loneliness epidemic", aka, I can't get a girlfriend. And then we have Andrew Tate and Jordan Peterson giving these men advice, which if you remove the toxicity, boils down to: stop caring about what women think of you, take care of yourself, work out, get hobbies, spend time with friends, do well in your career. Which is pretty good advice to follow if you are a man, looking for women!

And it's not like sex is some trivial thing, either. From an evolutionary point of view, if you can't have sex and have no expectation of being able to get it in the future, that's a death worse than death. It is the end of your genes, which are programmed to want to continue existing even more than any individual is.

So if you're looking to deradicalize young men, it's possible that the solution is to just give them a straightforward path to getting some pussy.

Look up "polarizing" as a dating strategy. You don't have to attract everyone. Just the people who are into what you're into.

Outsourcing is a solution.

I'm confused as to what your objection is.