Being a narcissist is not a disability, it is a choice. You can choose better
Ok, I can see this is getting too personal for you, and you're right, I guess I played with fire with the last paragraphe, and I apologize for naming you these names, I didn't mean it like that, but before you speak to my character, just realize you haven't commented on the subject matter ( point A + B that I talked about ) but instead just kept focusing on the premice of that discussion, your first explainer seemed well thought of, but this second explainer seem to be emotional, so I apologize for offending you, I can do better
Would you want somebody acting like you talking to your children? Do your niece is and nephews? Is your language appropriate? Is your rhetoric coherent and constructive? Obviously not, so why should a moderator let you poison the well of their community?
You're holding me to some unrealistic standards for the internet discussions as a whole, very few people talk like you're describing here on Lemmy, actually I never saw a single person here talking like that... It's usually lots of swearing here, I just made a comment and I was being honest, could I have phrased my comment better ? Absolutely, english isn't my first language, but I'm wrong in my statements, I highly doubt it
I also think we should differentiate between a toxic subject and a toxic individual, if as a mod you don't want toxicity in your community by all means delete posts that you know will have toxic comments, this means Religion and Politics are not allowed, that would have been totally fine
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Don't say that, you bigoted random person who doesn't respect minorities with Nazi like ideology... Do you wanna get banned as well ?
( also, OBVIOUSLY jokinng about calling you bigot it's just for the sake of the joke, hope you understand 😅 )
You still havent apologized for saying such terrible things about me.
again, I went to the extreme just to demonstrate a point, by framing you in certain image to your admins, it's likely they agree with me, because I'm telling them what to conclude in the process not just what happened.. It's obvious I don't believe or think that about a random I talk to online otherwise I won't be talking to them
Yes I absolutely would call the police if someone was being disruptive. That's literally what you're supposed to do. See something say something
disruptive, I said.. key word... Said... Nothing more.. Do you call the cops for someone saying something? This translates to calling the mods just because you don't agree with someone online
I've told you multiple times in this conversation exactly why you got banned
I didn't say anything wrong in the comments that got me banned.. This is what this post is about..
- Tate being a shitty person
- Prophet Mohammed Piss be upon him being a Pedo
If ANYONE wants to debate me on that... Let's go..actually scratch that ... do your own research, and come back
and you still have not seen the problem with your behavior.
You explained that what got me banned is the account suspected of being a puppet account or something like that...
Now you're saying it's my disability to learn form my mistakes ?
which one is it ??
I obviously didn't mean to do that for real, I went to the extreme just to demonstrate a point.. It's the quickest way people get the point..
calling for my admins to ban me is just... bizarre let's just put it that way...
So in a real life scenario you would call the cops if someone said something were they turned out to be the assholes ?
Also, keep in mind that I'm here actually having a civil discussion, trying to understand what went wrong, why do admins do that ? getting different perspectives!! Unlike the mod who hides behind the ban button and bans no questions asked, we will never get their side of the story. Like I explained how does my comment fit in Rule 2???!!!
no clue what OP is expecting to get out of this post aside from another ban
is everything solved by bans here ? lol
you created a fresh sock puppet account to have these discussions. And you were correctly moderated off the instance.
But because clearly you came ready for a fight,
Please don't make these assumptions about me, I made that account to delete this account not have fights... It's just so happens my first comments were controversial ( lets put this way ) with that new account
Also, I shared a lot of personal stuff on this account it doesn't make sense if I keep it, if I wanna preserve my anonymity, that's all, nothing more nothing less
Quite frankly, if you hadn't used a brand new sock puppet account, the moderators probably would have looked at your 9 months of posting history and participation, and just giving you a warning, or a temporary ban
I see, Everything makes sense now
You were looking for a fight, you found your fight, if you don't want to get banned in the future you should have constructive discussions.
Bruh, that's just a comment, do you want me to put a whole essay debunking every claim in Islam and why Andrew Tate is a shitty person... In order for it to be constructive... I sure can
I just said what I think.... It's called a comment .. Not an article
You made a new account, shopped around trying to be offensive. Found people to respond to. And now you're coming here shopping for outrage that you got feedback on your other account
Wow, that's a brilliant and simplistic analysis to justify banning me.. Isn't that all of Lemmy people sharing opinions that other people might or might not agree with... saying I was looking for a fight... Is a very narrow minded conclusion
You clearly knew what you were doing was wrong, you have a 9-month-old Lemmy account, but you made a brand new account to have your fights with. You wouldn't do that if you thought you were correct
So, Sherlock what does that mean... I make new account all the time, for privacy reasons.. And why would I come here to share what happened and link to the mod log... i must be a psychopath is that what you're saying ?
You might want to look at this users (from your instance) sock puppet activity
So let's reverse this, I will tag your admins and say you're in support of the mod who banned me, because it's clearly y'all support Nazi ideology and Andrew Tate, highly likely to be pedos... It's the least I can do.
Please stop replying to me now
you're not getting the full context..I agree I should do more of what you said ( not spending too much time online ), but this is the first time I post about this online
You see.. this is a recurring theme, I'm addressing the whole problem here from its roots.. Which is Mods and Admins deplatfoming people simply because they're narrow minded and don't know what the other person is talking about, they just know they don't agree with it. That's generally speaking
Now to be more specific, any critism of Islam ( my old religion ) is not allowed for a looooot of mods it's actually scary.. I just wanted to share this because it could be
- Mods don't know what they're defending or..
- they actually support this ideology.. Which is what worries me..
probably by someone who just wants to keep toxicity off the platform.
Is going out of your way to report me to my admin, who did agree with the other mod considered keeping a safe environment for you ?
Nah, that sounds like someone got salty and took it personally to be fully honest
If it’s causing you that much distress then you should reflect on that and just try to move on.
Again, this is not just about me, I knew a lot of exmuslims who crtisized Islam and got deplatfomed, mainly because the deplatfomer doesn't know their stuff, that's fine I'm not expecting them to learn another language and read the Qur'an, but try to solve this in more civilized manner, maybe hide the comment until your verify it, or just delete it if you feel it's too much trouble to deal with.. way better peaceful appoach in my opinion
Also, I just wanted to get other people perspective..
There's no modlog activity associated with the account you posted on.
Yes there is, and the account was banned from the server afterwards, meaning the mod contacted the my server admin/mod and they banned me from the platform entirely
It doesn't sound like you were beeing nice in the community you were participating in
vaguely put, but I'll reply to this statement anyways.. No I didn't, I know better to mock an idea not a person, I never do the later
if you were trying to cause a religious war.
And where is that in the rule ??? ... not that I did anyways, but stating a simple fact about someone's ( Andrew Tate's ) Religion is not starting "a religious war"
you may not want to try to bait people into a heated topic about deeply held religious beliefs.
So just because an ideology is wide spread I'm not allowed to crtisize it for fear of hurting people's little feelings.. No..that's so so so wrong.. all Ideas should be allowed to be criticized and mocked, that's how you reach a sound conclusion that that idea is great or bad.. how do you know that your ideology is correct if you don't allow people to crtisize it ? you won't... So if I wanna talk about religion because the topic requires it I will share my opinion and what I know about it... Or... yanno maybe I just won't... And this is where I agree with you but for different reasons ... It's because the people are ignorant of what I'm talking about and they only see things from their perspective... They don't think someone lives in an other nation and sees things differently..
All I'm saying is .. Don't ban me and go out of your way to ask my mod to ban me, because
A. You don't know what I'm talking about B. You're just like the people I criticized
I have seen better modding before, I said stupid stuff before I have my flaws.. And mods DMed and explained why it's not cool to do that and even suggested what I should post next.. When I'm wrong I totally will understand, but this time I'm not..
It's just feel so unfair now, people like Andrew Tate and Prophet Mohammed being openly homophobic, mysoginistic, violent..and I the person suffering from their actions because I'M A minority, I'm gay, I do live in Muslim country, I HAVE been and still going thru racism and discrimination, I'm the one who gets to be deplatformed but not these people with their shitty ideologies, what about my feelings ?? doesn't it hurt to see mods siding with people like this.. ? It sure does