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Biden Wants Arms Deals With Israel to Be Done in Complete Secrecy, Without Congress
  • The 1932 election had a communist option, it’s unlikely that there will be one on my ballot.

    We’re not going to overthrow fascism in America at the voting booth. I’m not trying to convince anyone to vote for Biden, that’s his job and he’s not doing it very well. I’m also not going to shame anyone for doing something easy like voting in the hopes that it makes them a tiny bit safer.

    I would shame someone if they thought that voting democrat is a step towards bringing about positive change or parroted some bullshit about how we can get more concessions from Democrats than Republicans. If voting is the extent of your political engagement, you aren’t opposing fascism.

  • Biden Wants Arms Deals With Israel to Be Done in Complete Secrecy, Without Congress
  • If Hitler had actually held an election and the only options were him or a Strasser party, I don’t think it would be immoral to vote for the Strassers. But I also don’t think it would be a moral obligation if you had no reason to believe they would stop the Holocaust.

  • Biden Wants Arms Deals With Israel to Be Done in Complete Secrecy, Without Congress
  • If they’re both equally evil internationally and mostly equally evil domestically, am I allowed to vote for who is less likely to remove more human rights from women and trans people?

    I would never tell anyone that they should vote, I understand people’s reasons for not doing it. Selfishly, I’m going to give myself the best chance of having access to life saving health care until I’m no longer of child bearing age.

  • Why does it seem like Americans are obsessed over home invasions? Do you have a lot of them?
  • I don’t know why but home invasion is my biggest fear. I had nightmares for weeks after watching Gerald’s Game. For what it’s worth, in my nightmares, the perpetrator is always white, so I don’t think it’s strictly a racism thing.

    I think part of it is we own so little in a capitalist society and it’s such a violent society, so your home can feel like your only safe space. Having that safety shattered would feel like the ultimate violation to me. And then as a woman, you add in the probability of sexual violence and it gets scarier. Also very afraid that people would kill my dogs, but cops would do that too.

    I have moderate to severe anxiety and am pretty agoraphobic, so this might not be how normal people think.

  • PP not hard, do better.
  • I don’t care how fappable she is, but it is really jarring how different she looks from the first game while Pete and Miles look mostly the same. And by Pete looking the same I mean looking the same as his bad facial makeover from the remastered version.

  • Bernie: "In my view, the state of Israel has the absolute right to defend itself"
  • That makes sense, and I replied to your original comment instead of reporting it because I think we have the kind of community where people wouldn’t say something offensive intentionally. So not sure if it will get any mod attention to begin with.

    I appreciate your responses a lot. heart-sickle

  • Bernie: "In my view, the state of Israel has the absolute right to defend itself"
  • Thanks for the explanation, I had not heard the term Judas goat before. I didn’t realize it was a contiguous expression.

    Goats are used a lot in demonic imagery, so I just wasn’t sure if that was a part of it, but assumed since you’re a Hexbear user that it was more likely to be goat = greatest of all time.

    I think the term Judas goat is probably one of those terms like hysterical or being gypped that a lot of people don’t realize has a hateful origin because it’s a cultural norm around them. And then it just sounds wild to someone who’s never heard the term and instantly hears the dog whistle.

  • Bernie: "In my view, the state of Israel has the absolute right to defend itself"
  • Could you maybe pick a different comparison that isn’t an antisemitic trope?

    I’m assuming good faith and that you’re unaware of how frequently Judas is used as shorthand for evil Jew. And with goat, I don’t know if you’re making a reference to the trope of Jews hiding horns under their kipot or saying he’s the greatest betrayer of all time.

    On Real Housewives of Salt Lake City this week, someone accidentally made a pretty good substitution and confused Judas with Brutus. A literal backstabber might be a more apt comparison.

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  • Thanks for explaining that. I was trying to figure out if it was some weird reference to Wicked.

    Is there any racist symbology behind the hand being feminine with black nail polish?

  • Salary Needed To Buy a Home In The US
  • This is just not realistic.

    Using the median home price is severely underestimating the cost of a decent home in an okay neighborhood.

    With these salaries, you can afford a house that needs severe repairs or in either an unsafe or really inconvenient area.

    I bought a house in one of these cities in 2017 with slightly more than what they say is the required salary. It was 195k with 4.5%. The school district reassessed the house from the sale, my taxes skyrocketed, and my mortgage increased $600 a month. I ended up selling the house after 3 years to move in my parents with 25k in credit card debt.

    Today, that house would cost at least 300k and interest rates are around 8%. I’ve almost tripled my salary since then and my budget is probably max 330k.

  • Bring back 'milk drinker' as an insult
  • I’m in a similar boat. Congratulations on your weight loss! I had to have bariatric surgery to get my eating under control, so I know how immensely challenging it is.

    Because of my surgery, it’s just not possible to be vegan. I have to get 60g of protein per day and can only fit about 1 cup of food in my stomach at a time. It’s just not possible to get that much protein in the amount of vegan food I can fit in my stomach.

    I can have protein based milk alternatives like soy milk and I’m also a big fan of tofu, but meat is just a lot more protein dense. I’ve just accepted that I’m going to die if meat or vitamins become unavailable in the future.

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  • Let me clarify, I didn’t mean that all Italians look Jewish. Just that when someone looks Jewish, but isn’t, they’re usually Italian.

    Michael Imperioli and Lady Gaga are some other examples.

  • Folks, please, if you can spare a few...
  • There’s definitely a stereotypical Jewish appearance. Most Jews in America are ashkenazi, which means they descend from central and Eastern Europe as opposed to Sephardic Jews, who descend from the Iberian peninsula and the Middle East.

    Some examples of people who look like Jewish stereotypes:

    Nick Kroll

    Andy Samberg

    Jenny Slate

    Ilana Glazer

    We share a lot of features with Italians, so there are a lot of people who are assumed to be Jewish but aren’t like Jason Biggs. If you’re in Long Island, you’re going to see a lot of both.

    Hope this didn’t come off too race sciencey, I’m also mostly stereotypically Jewish looking. It feels like part of Jewish American culture is being excited when other people are Jewish and surprised when someone looks Jewish but isn’t.

  • I’m in such a dark place TW: Suicidal Ideation

    I’m so scared for the future and it feels hopeless.

    I’m afraid to talk to my friends and family about how bad my mental health is right now because I don’t want them to try to hospitalize me or something.

    I just feel like I’ve already experienced the best moments in my life and all I have to look forward to is being a wage slave, debt, and dying alone.

    I know that I need to have some kind of purpose to dedicate myself to but I don’t want to do anything. I get so drained from work that I spend all my time off playing video games or watching TV just to recharge so I can make it through the work week. It just feels like a pointless cycle where I work so I can afford treats to make it bearable to work.

    My job isn’t even difficult, and it’s remote and pays really well. But it’s so pointless. It’s honestly sickening how much harder people work to actually benefit society for not even half as much. I’m aware that I’m extremely privileged in this regard, but that also makes me feel even more hopeless. If living is this uncomfortable for me, so many more people must feel even worse.

    Recently, I’ve been thinking about how scary it will be to get old. My husband is a little older than me and doesn’t take great care of himself, so most likely he will die first. It’s very unlikely that we will have children, and also I think it’s gross to have kids just so you could have caretakers. My siblings are also older. I’m scared to be senile living alone or being abused in a nursing home. I guess it’s possible that we’ll all die a lot younger due to climate change.

    I feel like the only things keeping me going are the fear of pain from dying and how my dogs and husband depend on me. I feel like if there was a button I could press to be instantly painlessly dead, I would push it (maybe I should move to Canada?).

    I know that my problems are small compared to a lot of people here, and I’m sorry if this post comes across as insensitive. I feel like I just had to get these thoughts out of my head and I really love and appreciate this community. Thank you for listening.

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    Is anyone else finding it harder to google things?

    I don’t know if I’m paranoid, but it is so much harder for me to find links for things I’ve seen to share with people.

    Googling “Zelensky blonde hair blue eyes bbc” did not bring up anything referencing his sick comments. Only when I added “Twitter” did I find tweets that had clipped it.

    I’m not able to find anything about Yemen being attacked recently and the most recent news says that Yemen launched a rocket.

    Am I conspiracy-brained, are there just not any sources reporting on anything inconvenient to Western hegemony, or are they being buried by the algorithm?

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