Thanks this actually helps alot I appreciate it very much . I'll take your advice and self reflect and do the small list of things you said to do . I guess I just needed someone to say it to notice my unconscious insecurities. Thank you
I express my needs of course I do love and relationships are a 2 way street but after awhile they don't seem to care and just downplay it all . it wasn't like that at the beginning so I try to just ask why and if they are okay.
I'm sorry for being vague what 8 mean by syop caring is they just ignore me altogether and refuse to express their feelings and they tend to become really distant , I understand that I'm also at fault for being old school about stuff . Its almost like they always have better things to do and end of just leaving without any explanation or signs other than just distancing themselves, I don't get it but I'm also I'm my 20's so I have a lot to learn cause I'm young still If you know what I mean .
I have a really bad habit of getting into relationships with people ,who are nice at first then just stop caring . I listen to peoples feelings and am a very honest and open person . I know when to stop speaking and for some reason I don't know why I could work and also cook the next days meals the night before on my workdays and clean the mess I made while still cleaning my partners mess when I get home and it would never be enough . on my days off I dont have a pleasing people issue I just like lots of tasks it makes me happy and I still always have time for myself and my partner of course. I give my partner space and listen to their feelings as well as just being there for them . What am I doing wrong? I always just say if you need something or want something to be different just tell me and I can make it work if my partner says they want tondo something like helo cook or work or anything else I'm cool with it . I'm an easy to please respectful person I hold doors and have manners. I don't know I guess I just want some advice on what I should do after I heal from my breakup? I just am gonna take some time to myself and reflect and do some self improvement . Thanks,