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[CW: Mentions of Misogyny and Racism] Jenny Mustard - How Parents React To Me Being Childfree (this is bad) (19:53)
  • For me, there's always been hella goalpost movements.

    I've been of a childfree mentality since I was a kid myself, and I'm not sure if this is a neurodivergent thing, but I could never get, even into puberty and adulthood, why people kept telling me shit like "You'll change your mind when you get older!"

    When I was 12 and said that I don't want kids, I got a buncha "Wait until you're deep into puberty, and then you'll change your mind about it."

    When I was 16 and 17 and still felt the same way, they said, "Wait until you get in the scene of dating as an adult; then you'll want kids!"

    Even when I was 18, 19, and 20, I got a lot of the "You're too young to know that!" shit, even from the same people who told me the aforementioned things at younger ages.

    Some people also believe that love can be so irrational that it'll change your mind on core principles you hold, such as voluntary childlessness. I literally dated a woman that I was all lovey-dovey about and could not stop gushing about, and when she revealed to me that she actually wanted to see about raising kids with me (through adoption if we had to), my love began to diminish quick, not just for that reason but due to other incompatibilities as well.

    The question of "Why do you not want kids?" could never be something I could answer with an actual reason. I could only answer with the inverse question, "Why would I want kids?"

    This is an overwhelmingly cisheteronormative thing too because cissies and heteros will unleash the homophobia and misogyny combo on lesbians regarding them not getting impregnated by a man especially. It's gross.

    Also, how relentless people are with trying to affirm that my voluntary childlessness is invalid indirectly communicates that these people see being childfree as being broken. They'd never tell a teenager who wants children, "But what if you change your mind and end up actually not wanting kids?" for example.

  • youtubers .002 seconds after being called “breadtuber”
  • Yes, slurs for cracker-ass mayo monkey bleach demon snow roaches zero-purpose flour ass honkies count.

    It should with how obnoxiously white and ignorant about race Breadtube is.

  • youtubers .002 seconds after being called “breadtuber”
  • Then unleashes the epidemic of YouTubers now saying slurs simply to avoid being associated with br**dt*be 🤮🤮🤮🤮

  • [CW: Mentions of Misogyny and Racism] Jenny Mustard - How Parents React To Me Being Childfree (this is bad) (19:53)
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    How Parents React To Me Being Childfree (this is bad)

    My hyper-Catholic grandfather called me "selfish" for being childfree, and I feel like he's viewing it as "selfishness against God" in a way.

    I'm biologically unable to have kids because of gender transition anyway, but obviously, it's not like his religion approves of that either. We don't talk anymore, and that's the happiest path for the both of us, even if he doesn't realize it.

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    Alex G - Planetarium (Inside)
  • I just posted "Sanitarium" by Metallica a bit after you posted this. I'm wondering if that's a coincidence or while scrolling Hexbear and skimming post titles, the back of my mind thought of a song with a rhyming name.

  • Metallica - Welcome Home (Sanitarium) [Heavy Metal/Thrash Metal] (6:28) - 1986
    inv.nadeko.net Welcome Home (Sanitarium) (Remastered)

    Provided to YouTube by Blackened Recordings Welcome Home (Sanitarium) (Remastered) · Metallica Master of Puppets (Remastered) ℗ 1986 Blackened Recordings Released on: 1986-03-03 Auto-generated by YouTube.

    Welcome Home (Sanitarium) (Remastered)
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    Calm-tuah
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  • ["There are 35 days until election day" news] Harris says she backs legalizing marijuana.
  • Thankfully, I'm 1000% immune to this trick, Copmala.

    Even if I did indulge, it still won't outweigh the genocide support!

  • KoЯn - Here to Stay [Nu Metal] (4:31) - 2002
    yt.artemislena.eu Here to Stay

    Provided to YouTube by Epic Here to Stay · Korn Untouchables ℗ 2002 Epic Records, a division of Sony Music Entertainment Released on: 2002-06-11 Producer: Michael Beinhorn Composer, Lyricist: Brian Welch Composer, Lyricist: David Silveria Unknown: Roger Lian Composer, Lyricist: James Shaffer Un...

    Here to Stay

    High school me thought this was the greatest masterpiece I had ever heard. !07

    I wouldn't go that far today, but it still fucks!

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    We are white liberals
  • We're white liberals. We'll have heated gamer moments whenever a marginalized person disagrees with us on electoralism.

  • But Pennywise is pro-Genocide.
  • And the more Democrats get in charge, the more Democracyer it is.

  • But Pennywise is pro-Genocide.
  • Plot twist: candidate two ends up killing 3 babies anyway once they get elected, and everyone who voted for them is dead silent once this happens.

  • Hashtag OrangeManBad
  • And the number 1 cringe medal award goes to...

  • Liberalism is a death cult
  • Receiving a 51-minute Hakim banger tells me that we've been good little comrades who deserve a nice treat.

    A nice treat that excellently covers a heavy subject that needs much more attention, especially considering the amount of ignorant western liberals.

    As a queer radical of color, I rightfully hold myself as having nothing in common with these liberals, even the ones that are women of color (ahem). Pretending that liberals have anything going for them except a veil of performatively supporting human rights causes to even the bare minimum degree could never possibly be enough to get me to uphold, through my vote or any other way, the bloodshed that liberals are all about.

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    Does anyone else just DESPISE this guy
  • When you used to watch him unironically in an ironic way that's also kinda unironic but really it's just post-irony with a hint of meta-irony on top.

  • I hate discovering new music. Why is it difficult?
  • I might start doing that!

  • An Old Video but a Gold Video: Leftist Vegan Takes on Right-Wing Vegans (That Vegan Lawyer, George Martin, and Sonia Sae) by Catherine Klein (49:58)
    inv.nadeko.net Leftist Takes on That Vegan Lawyer, George Martin, and Sonia Sae

    Why Conservatism is Antithetical to Veganism https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uFhaYc5RvIo Why Veganism is Political https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gR74jsTYa6g Am I a Social Justice Warrior? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EKmSFld5VEc Become a Patron! https://www.patreon.com/catherineklein?fan_landi...

    Leftist Takes on That Vegan Lawyer, George Martin, and Sonia Sae

    No, unfortunately, the vegan movement is not free of nonsensical chuddery. I'm as confused as you are.

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    King Crimson - Pictures of a City [Progressive Rock] (8:02) - 1970
    inv.nadeko.net King Crimson - Pictures Of A City (Including "42nd At Treadmill")

    Full Album Playlist: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLXhfRoiJBIisZQ8vMbNUApfin2R8Rbcav PICTURES OF A CITY (Including "42nd At Treadmill") (Fripp, Sinfield) Concrete cold face cased in steel Stark sharp glass-eyed crack and peel Bright light scream beam brake and squeal Red white green white ne...

    King Crimson - Pictures Of A City (Including "42nd At Treadmill")
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    Liberals only appear to be opposed to transphobia or any form of bigotry for that matter when the guise of this opposition serves them.

    This effort for liberals to try to convince decent people to cast a ballot for a genocide-funding cop has made me see some disturbing scratched liberal moments.

    One "argument" that liberals abuse the shit out of is that they argue that not voting for Harris is rooted in being a privileged individual who doesn't understand how disgustingly harmful Trump and Project 2025 will be for the underprivileged.

    As a transfem, I can sometimes feel like "Schrödinger's trans person" when it comes to libs that try to guilt trip people into voting for Harris for the sake of "protecting marginalized people." I've had people assume, on multiple occasions and on the basis of my race and gender identity alone, that I back Kamala. Sometimes in these instances, I feel hesitant bringing up the truth for the sake of "keeping the peace."

    Liberals will hear a trans person make their case for why they support Harris and how they expect her to protect trans rights. Liberals will cheer a person like this on, and they will point to this person to say that those who refuse to vote (D) out of the bare minimum conviction of opposing settler colonialism do not understand how bad marginalized people have it.

    However, if I, as a trans person, but not only a trans person, but a black neurodivergent, broke ass transfeminine enby in Florida, affirm that I refuse to vote for Harris, liberals will double down on transphobia and find some way to tie me being trans into some "maleness" that makes me unable to sympathize with the underprivileged. !brow

    This is so vile that it sounds like a strawman, but let's just say that... when you're interacting with anonymous liberals on social media who don't have to worry about getting their shit knocked out when they say insensitive stuff, you get what you pay for.

    Mask-off liberal moments like this actually make me feel a lot more justified than I already am in how distrustful I can be of these awful pieces of shit.

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    Pestilence - Phileas [Instrumental Jazz Fusion] (1:17) - 1993
    inv.nadeko.net Phileas

    Provided to YouTube by Roadrunner Records Phileas · Pestilence Spheres ℗ 1993 The All Blacks B.V. Producer: Patrick Mameli Producer: Steve Fontano Composer, Lyricist: Jeroen Paul Thesseling Auto-generated by YouTube.

    Phileas

    By a technical death metal band....

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    Death - Pull the Plug [Death Metal] (4:27) - 1988
    inv.nadeko.net Pull the Plug

    Provided to YouTube by The Orchard Enterprises Pull the Plug · Death Leprosy (Reissue) ℗ 2014 Relapse Records Inc. Released on: 2014-04-29 Auto-generated by YouTube.

    Pull the Plug

    A classic in the genre that's still insanely brutal and cathartic to this very day.

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    Minor Threat - Out of Step [Hardcore Punk] (1:21) - 1983
    inv.nadeko.net Out Of Step

    Provided to YouTube by Dischord Out Of Step · Minor Threat Out of Step ℗ Dischord Records Released on: 1984-06-01 Artist: Minor Threat Auto-generated by YouTube.

    Out Of Step

    Smoking? !bugs-no

    Drinking? !blob-no

    Fucking? !volcel-judge

    Thinking? !stalin-approval

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    Liquid Tension Experiment - Universal Mind [Instrumental Progressive Metal] (7:54) - 1998
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    Provided to YouTube by The Orchard Enterprises Universal Mind · Mike Portnoy · John Petrucci · Tony Levin · Jordan Rudess · Liquid Tension Experiment Liquid Tension Experiment ℗ 1998 Magna Carta Released on: 1998-03-10 Music Publisher: T-LEV INC Music Publisher: Chef Mikey Music Auto-generated...

    Universal Mind
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    Cynic - Veil of Maya [Progressive Metal] (5:21) - 1993
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    Provided to YouTube by Roadrunner Records Veil of Maya · Cynic Focus ℗ 1993 The All Blacks B.V. Composer: Cynic Auto-generated by YouTube.

    Veil of Maya
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    Ne Obliviscaris - And Plague Flowers the Kaleidoscope [Progressive Metal] (11:33) - 2012
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    Provided to YouTube by TuneCore And Plague Flowers the Kaleidoscope · Ne Obliviscaris Portal of I ℗ 2012 Welkin Records Released on: 2012-05-07 Auto-generated by YouTube.

    And Plague Flowers the Kaleidoscope
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    Animals as Leaders - The Brain Dance [Instrumental Jazz Metal] (7:01) - 2016
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    Provided to YouTube by Universal Music Group The Brain Dance · Animals As Leaders The Madness Of Many ℗ 2016 Sumerian Records Released on: 2016-11-11 Composer: Animals As Leaders Auto-generated by YouTube.

    The Brain Dance
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    Periphery - 22 Faces [Progressive Metal(core)/Djent] (3:53) - 2015
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    Periphery - 22 Faces
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    Bee Gees - Night Fever [Disco] (3:29) - 1977
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    Bee Gees - Night Fever
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    Cryptopsy - Phobophile [Technical Death Metal] (4:38) - 1996
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    Provided to YouTube by The Orchard Enterprises Phobophile · Cryptopsy None So Vile ℗ 2008 Displeased Records Released on: 2008-10-24 Auto-generated by YouTube.

    Phobophile
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    Dream Theater - Take the Time [Progressive Metal] (8:21) - 1992
    inv.nadeko.net Take the Time

    Provided to YouTube by Atlantic Records Take the Time · Dream Theater Images and Words ℗ 1992 Atlantic Recording Corporation for the United States and WEA International Inc. for the world outside of the United States. Mixing Engineer: David Prater Producer: David Prater Mixing Engineer: Doug O...

    Take the Time
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    Marty Friedman - Dragon Mistress [Instrumental Neoclassical Metal] (3:42) - 1988
    inv.nadeko.net Dragon Mistress

    Provided to YouTube by The Orchard Enterprises Dragon Mistress · Marty Friedman Dragon's Kiss ℗ 2015 Shrapnel Records Inc. Released on: 1998-08-08 Music Publisher: Varney Metal Music Co. Auto-generated by YouTube.

    Dragon Mistress
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    Sailing Before the Wind - Drift Apart [Japanese Metalcore] (4:28) - 2016
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    Sailing Before The Wind - Drift Apart (Official Music Video) / Japanese Metalcore band
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