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Chat, is it creepy to have a totally unjustified crush
  • If you try to pursue a platonic friendship with someone you are crushing on, that has the potential to turn quite ugly, speaking from experience. Obvs you know the situation better than me, but one might say that carrying on like that is even dishonest/unfair to both parties. It will be way harder to salvage a friendship if this comes out later on, when you both know you've been continuing under false pretenses.

    As for appropriateness, there's nothing weird or creepy about asking someone out! You can even lampshade the awkwardness it if needs be. You're making out that boundaries were set when you spoke with her. Is that true? Because asking her out is how you give her a chance to set those boundaries.

  • Chat, is it creepy to have a totally unjustified crush
  • Just ask them out imo. This feeling will only fester otherwise. And if they say no, well now you know!

  • Hexbear Linux users are the deep state of China
  • Yeah I second this — I have Linux Mint on the family computer and the non-techies get on just fine with it. The Cinnamon desktop environment is basically a modern remake of Windows XP.

  • Does anyone else get really anxious when you get downtime at work?
  • On quiet shifts when I worked at McDonald's, we'd deliberately dirty up the work surfaces so we could look busy when a floor manager came by — because otherwise they'd find some awful/dangerous job for you to do instead

  • Hexbear Linux users are the deep state of China
  • I don't think you know what you're asking for tbh

  • Hexbear Linux users are the deep state of China
  • I mean if you absolutely must use Windows applications, why not just use Windows? I won't tell anyone

  • How would you enforce a pay-it-forward scheme?
  • You have to pay it forward to two people or gulag

  • Elects labour, gets Conservatives
  • Lmao no one has any right to be surprised by this — his whole election pitch was 'I solemnly swear to govern as an awful right wing bastard, because that's what Normal Britons want'

  • What is an important "butterfly moment" for you that helped push you towards leftism later on?
  • Yep. We tend not to see it this way because it's just too horrible to bear, but homelessness is a death sentence.

  • The Big Woke claims another victim
  • I want to live in this timeline

  • Don’t Talk About Politics At The Dinner Table
  • Did they also serve a fist made of ham

  • What is an important "butterfly moment" for you that helped push you towards leftism later on?
  • Remarking over a coffee that there were far fewer homeless people than a couple of years previously, suddenly realizing that they had all died

  • Most intelligent man in the world btw
  • Beet there's a huge battery pack in there like off an old camcorder

  • Effort post: corruption is loosely defined in capitalism, and comparisons with socialism are inherently unfair
  • But the contention here would be that the business owner has been entrusted with power — e.g. control of a factory and its workforce — ultimately by the state