Explicitly safe spaces in real life typically aren’t open to having strangers walk in off the street, even if they have a bouncer to throw problematic people out. A single negative interaction might require a lot of energy to undo.
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I don't want safe spaces. Probably can handle someone writing something I don't agree with without losing my shit.
You can check the federated/defederated instances for any instance on the /instances page. For example:
https://sh.itjust.works/instances
https://beehaw.org/instances
Looked at the list and instantly regretted it.
Thanks just what I was looking for