Lemmy let's you un-delete anything you've deleted, so nothing really gets nuked (it seems to be the way these things work anyway, that it's just a 'deleted' flag that's flipped between true and false).
On the one hand, it's a Lemmy problem - I can see you're comment using the API:
curl --request GET \
--url 'https://lemmy.world/api/v3/comment?id=8986376' \
--header 'accept: application/json'
=>
{
"comment_view": {
"comment": {
"id": 8986376,
"creator_id": 399371,
"post_id": 13748490,
"content": "See what i mean? I deleted this!",
"removed": false,
"published": "2024-03-31T09:48:22.897008Z",
"deleted": true,
"ap_id": "https://lemmy.world/comment/8986376",
"local": true,
"path": "0.8986376",
"distinguished": false,
"language_id": 37
...
But there's also a bug with Sync in that it's not checking the flag if someone try to reply.
If it's something you feel strongly about, then for this reason, and the usual federation reasons, it's probably better to overwrite your content with "[deleted]" or something, rather than delete it.
(you may have already seen this - my original reply went to the wrong place. Which is another Sync bug incidentally, when using the notification to reply (Android))
Due to the nature of Lemmy, nothing is ever truly deleted as it gets federated across multiple different instances.
It may eventually sync across most.
Deleting tends to only delete it on that instance, hence why when you reply to a deleted one, chances are you see it from your current instance's cache. Or vice versa.
yeah the last few weeks whenever we delete something, it will still show our username in perpetuity, but to make my actual comment go away I manually delete the comment And replace it with a hashtag.
Thereafter, people can still upvote the nothingness comment or downvote the nothingness comment and they can still reply to the nothingness comment If they're weird and they want to, and sometimes they are weird and they do.