i know this is always awkward but as a bi, saying "went gay" (or straight) is technically bi erasure. Not that I'm super mad about it, but it's worth pointing out when a bisexual person is in a long term relationship / marriage until death do us part — they don't stop being bi.
"bi erasure" is a nice $2 NPR podcast phrase but isn't it ultimately up to the individual to define what his own sexuality is? If the guy says he's gay now, I believe him.
I think there's a video of incel Nick Fuentes saying that because plenty of gay men have had sex with women and he's still a virgin, having sex with a woman is gay. That's pretty damn close to this.
Nick Fuentes is actually gay though. Part of the "I'm portraying a white nationalist because I'm afraid of who I am" set. He screams at others to hide the thoughts that fill his own head.
This was a bit on Cumtown making fun of Jordan Peterson. "It's actually uh.. gay to get pussy, we just did a study at the University of Canada. Also if your dick is small, it's actually big!"
They’d probably say it’s only more straight but yeah if they’re really that backed up then they’re all a big sneeze away from finding out their Kinsey scales.
I just had a thought, women's perfume often smells like flowers, right? Many men are then attracted to women that smell "pretty" and wear perfumes like that - what this actually means is that those guys just like to smell flowers all day (like a GIRLLLL!!!) and just don't have another socially acceptable way to do it publicly.