"So you said something the other day that's been bothering me..."
The other day being two weeks ago and you're like "Wait... You've had that on your mind and were acting like nothing was bothering you all this time?"
Sometimes I'm happy that I don't hold grudges/forget the things that bother me quickly, sometimes I wish I remembered better so I could bring back shit from the past when I get accused of something... It wouldn't improve the situation but at least I wouldn't be the only one feeling bad!
Edit: One thing though, the meme could have used "them" instead of "her" because I've known people who act like that from all genres and with any type of relationship with the person getting accused.
The second part I can relate a lot. It feels like just for fucking once I should be the one that gets offended by any damn minuscule thing, and form long-standing negative memories and openly act irritated in my relationship with various people.
I do actively take part in what's being done or talked, I do get instructive, I do get grumpy, and as everyone else does. This is different than taking everything personal, taking offense in anything said or done, and accusing people instead of making constructive criticism or instructive approaches.
It's in the file, under "D" for doughnut.
