Went through a divorce almost 6 years ago. My ex has an undiagnosed mental illness and my marriage was really bad so for me it was kind of a weight off my shoulders. It was still hard but it gets better. Find someone you can talk to about it, even if it's just a therapist, and take lots of time for self care. I did a lot of fishing, hiking, and golfing for a couple years. I had forgotten how much I enjoyed doing that stuff.
Isn't that a twisted combination of disorders of varying degrees? I think my therapist was reluctant to put that label on me. I don't know much about it but it seems to have a stigma
Sure is convenient how quickly some people seem to find someone else. Almost like they were already moving on long before the divorce.
Like my friends' sperm donor. Got divorced and within a month and a half, oh look someone he JUST MET is moving in, they're expecting a baby, and he's already given his daughter's car that was still in his name because it was a sweet 16 (friend was 19 at this time) and gave it to his new fucktoy's daughter.
But noooo, nothing untoward going on here, nosiree
Hey, this is me right now, though my wife found him before she left… I kinda felt from the beginning that she wouldn’t be able to spend the rest of her life with a woman, probably should have paid more attention to that feeling.
Now hear me out: Get yourself a dakimakura. With depression you will spend more time in bed than you like anyways and this way you alteast got something nice and plush to cuddle with in bed. It sounds bad but it feels good, believe me. If you feel like seeing people again but are embaressed you can always hide it in the closet. Or go with a neutral cover and say it helps sleeping on the side.
What's your favorite vinyl? Mine is the pre-broadway print of Hadestown. I got it for my wife as an anniversary gift and I wonder how much it may be worth.
I've just started listening to Hadestown and I'm only in the opening track, and I already love you for making me aware of it! I'm pretty sure I'm gonna be over my depression (one day) LOL
I've just started listening to Hadestown and I'm only in the opening track, and I already love you for making me aware of it! I'm pretty sure I'm gonna be over my depression (one day) LOL
Joking about it means you at least acknowledge it which means something for depression. And yeah it's a really fun album and you can probably tell how the show ended up winning a ton of Tony's. I still need to see the live performance.