When I was in middle school pretty much every teacher in the school was in one big lesbian menage a trois. Everyone knew it, and they would all cycle through being roommates with each other. Last I checked, there wasn't an unusual amount of gay alumni. On an unrelated note, we also learned important skills like critical thinking and understanding the world we lived in, turns out that mattered quite a bit more in my life so far.
I'd always say "I sit there and listen to my teachers talk about their sex life" as a joke when someone asked me how my day was back then, I didn't think it'd turn into reality.
As an aside, when I was a rather innocent pre teen, I was into hair metal of the 1980s, and liked the Motley Crue song Girls, Girls, Girls. I didn't know what menage a trois meant though.....so I asked my French teacher.
One of my dumbest moments but honestly I really didn't know and it seemed reasonable to ask the person who knew French.
The issue isn't casually talking about your family or partner. Most people save for the uber religious don't care if a teacher discusses their same-sex partner as in "my husband/wife took our kids shopping for our weekend trip." Most people won't even care if teachers answer questions students ask to clarify. "You're married to a woman?" "Yes, and I love her very much," etcetera.
