AITA for expecting my friend to help me move after offering to do the same?

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The original was posted on /r/amitheasshole by /u/izaknuton on 2023-07-27 15:24:11+00:00.

I'm moving next month and have asked my friends if they'd be willing to help me move in exchange for me doing the same.

One friend said that wasn't a fair deal because they have way less stuff. He lives in a one bedroom and I live in a two bedroom but I'm only moving my things which are going into a one bedroom. I may have more things but they're definitely comparable.

I also mentioned I have more helpers so it wouldn't just be us moving things and he just replied "I'll think about it".

I'm upset because I've always volunteered to help him and I thought he'd be willing to do the same especially since I was offering my help, not just asking for free labor. AITA?