What was the happiest day of your life and why?
What was the happiest day of your life and why?
Mine was the day I got my first apartment. I was really just beginning in life and felt like I never really truly knew freedom and safety like having my own soverign space that nobody could revoke or meddle with
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I can't remember anymore. Haven't felt great happiness for decades
I almost had a happy day but my anxiety got in the way and I ruined it.
At this point, a day where I don't feel like a total fuck up is the best I get. I'll keep working on it and maybe I'll have friends again.
Idk if this is valuable to you but it was to me so I'll take a shot. This is about social anxiety but can apply to other types as well imo.
I learned that my social anxiety was because I would not stick up for myself. Anxiety and "fight or flight" are physiologically the same thing, so my anxiety was my body freaking out that I may be abused in conversation with no way to defend myself.
I spent years learning healthy boundaries and effective ways to handle conflict and confrontation and in my mid 30s I finally feel like I'm crawling out of the hole.
It's a little annoying the thing I was anxious about and avoiding (conflict, embarrassment, making a scene if necessary) was actually the thing keeping me anxious in the first place but I'm glad I'm back on the climb out now.
I wish you luck in your journey, stranger.
I appreciate it. I've been feeling pretty down lately and this has helped.
I know I can do better.
Thank you for your encouragement.