There are more appropriate ways to say this:
"Nobody with kids. I might want kids some day, but I'm not ready yet, and it feels like there would be too much pressure to either be involved with her kids or be cut out of a major portion of her life until we're really serious. And again, not ready.
And somebody athletic, since I'm into biking and hiking and other activities that require a certain level of fitness.
And... well, somebody who isn't into the whole casual sex thing, honestly. I think sex is special and, for me, requires a strong emotional connection. I want someone who has similar views on sex."
See, I feel like it changes it when you're not focusing on the other person, but yourself. I'm not ready for kids, I'm into fitness, I'm a demisexual. It sets up the same thing without disparaging people who aren't what you're looking for.
Well first these are the frequent talking points of incels when they harp on what they consider âlow value femalesâ. If you find yourself constantly repeating such devaluing talking points, maybe a break from the internet would do you good. Secondly, and more generally, it is usually more attractive to talk about the things you love than the things you hate. Unless you have already established that you and the other person hate the same things, then you can bond over that too.
I'm imagining he was an obese single dad scrolling Tinder as he was telling her this.
Was she an obese single mom who had met your friend on tinder?
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Meanwhile women: 6 foot, 7 figures, 8 inches or move along.
Could an average rowboat support her without capsizing?
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I just say "I'll know when I meet her."
Probably because she was big, had a kid, and was on tinder đ
We don't know who we'll be attracted to until we meet them. This question is impossible to answer accurately, especially by an incel.
This wouldn't be unreasonable outside the US. Just that the list is pretty harshly put together. Since the problem is OP, the list should be presented in a different perspective.
- I'm not ready for kids
- It's hard for me to find obese people attractive
- I'm insecure about people being on a hookup app
Just show me pictures and I'll pick
I was writing a wall of text about how millenials trat me cause I have kids and my wife cause "she's obese" got a call and I have not the energy to write it again
Imagine here was a dissenting opinion based on experience...
Demand lists and redline lists suck and make people look like assholes, regardless of their gender, and even when there are legit red lines you wont go near because of safety, which none of these are.
In this case, a no fat chicks rule is gonna trigger every woman's societal induced neurosis about weight and body dysmorphia, you fucked up, never say that one out loud to a woman. It marks you aspart of the body dysmorphia problem.
No single moms, reasonable if you dont want kids or to be involved in raising one, but still makes you sound like an asshole. Not wanting or having kids is taboo even now, look at the shit that the republicans have been throwing at Kamala Harris. Rejecting a wonderful person because they have a kid is also dickish. And, depending on your age and where you live, the odds of finding a partner who does not have kids could be low to zero anyway.
No dating apps? What planet do you live on? Dating apps are everywhere and for some people the only option for dating. People meet spouses on em. Oh just not hookup apps? Then this smells like slut shaming, in which case fuck you. I love sluts; don't shame them or you will piss me off personally. If you want a virgin, become a religious fundamentalist and possibly a pedophile. People have sex and if you have a problem with that it's probably a red flag.
Sorry for the rant, this is greentext so probably all lies anyway, but it set me off.
Obesidy is sickness, kids are annoying, onlyfans it not a women empowerment tool, its just digital prostitution. I don't know if he is incel, but he is based.
