What do you like in porn, but not in reality?
What do you like in porn, but not in reality?
I'm shamelessly stealing that person idea, because I think it's an interesting question.
Personally I'm into porn involving some forms of abuse, often it's rape but it could also be just spanking or gaslight. Of course I'm not into that in real life. I know CNC is a thing, same with consensual SM and I could be into trying those one day, but I don't see myself doing that with my husband anytime soon, and it's different when it's planned in advance, which is not always the case in the story presented in porn.
Lemon theft. It's a brilliant plot device, but stay the hell away from my lemons.
Any situation with more than 2 people. I love the idea of groups or swinging, but IRL I am a very awkward human - couldn't do it even if presented with the opportunity. And I have no interest in anyone besides my partner.
I'll leave that one to fantasy-land.
In porn i always look for 20-something looking girls, but IRL I always found myself physically attracted girls (women) of my age bracket... So definitely older.
Porn makes the look more interesting than personality, and in real life I think it's the opposite. I definitely sometimes enjoy porn with 20 something guys too, but I don't see myself going out with them, even if I was single.
Agreed, in porn its only the looks, IRL its so much more than that.
Yeah but like it's not only that. I find myself more attracted to women my age irl just by their looks too.
I follow alot of hot Instagram models. They are amazing to look at. But if you ever attend a rare IG Live they do, they are some of the most vacuous, money minded people I've ever encountered.
One girl literally had the "cash me outside" girls schtick. I couldn't help myself and sent a message saying it's a good thing she's pretty, then left.
99% of it . .. I want to have a great time and want my partner to have a great time. I also don't want to bang relatives or plumbers or realtors or any myriad of professionals. So yeah porn stays in the land of fantasy and I can be inspired but mostly leave it there
What about the pizza guy?
Stepsister stuff.
Anything’s stepsister stuff if you just change the title of the video
Your mum
Thank you for your insight!
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I'm a male. I'm not gay irl just in porn land.
I feel like I recall seeing a subreddit a while ago specifically for that.
Big age gap.
Though as I get older, it's becoming less of a fantasy and more of a reality. Thought about this a few months back after hooking with a woman who was 20 years my junior. I've become that guy and I'm pulling back on it
Man, I've become rather unfond of porn at all. I've gotten to the point that it's written erotica and fantasy for me. Porn has gotten so ugly so often that it's all just offputting for me.
That being said, back when I did use porn, it was anal. It's one of those things that is very rarely on my list of things to do (for my own pleasure, I'll do it if a partner wants it), but it uses to be arousing because of the implied openness and trust (which, I know, isn't the case in porn, but that's the part that makes me willing to do it irl). It's the idea of "oh, I'll share everything with you" that's interesting about it in porn.
Irl, I still get turned on by that idea, but anal itself is not anywhere near as enjoyable as vaginal sex. To the contrary, sometimes it's distinctly unenjoyable for various reasons.
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I like the Hotwife content but its not a line I want to cross IRL.
I've tried couple on couple. I don't mind seeing my wife with another guy. But I wouldn't wanna feel left out.
Furries
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I wish there was more good furry animation stuff. When my partner and I do things to each other, we put on hentai. But we’re really particular about what hentai we like… it’s insanely tough to find hentai with normal type boobs and not GARGANTUAN BAZONGAS.
I’d love some cute yiff full vids we could watch, but there’s not a ton of that around.
judging by your profile you probably know about e621, if not, go there.
Outside of that, i've been following comics and rolling archives for a few years now so i've done my stint. The tagging system is a huge boon, you just need to know how to correctly utilize it, it's worth the time investment for image boards honestly.
Once you've figured out tagging really the best advice i can give is to find artists that you like, and follow them. There are usually a few artists that you will really enjoy. Images are by far and wide more accessible, that's just how it goes. Sorting by favorites and upvotes is also generally beneficial.
you should 100% roll your own archive, it takes a long time to build up, but it's very much worth the effort.
anyway, you know where to find me :) (we're instance buddies)
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It's hard to find straight porn where woman pleasure is really the goal. When I'm in this mood, it's easier for me to project myself in lesbian porn
Irl, why would I care about girls who don't care about guys ?
I think it would be like those exagerated athletic movements in porn (mostly in harcore videos). They look good in porn, but in reality they are very tiring or borderline impossible for a common person.
Hmm, in written erotica I can enjoy more masochistic stuff than I can enjoy in real life (I do enjoy some but too much will pull me out of the moment) but in videos pretty much enjoy what I do like, or have liked.
Like Schimitar also said - I do also enjoy younger people in video, they are attractive on screen but not IRL, not even in looks do I find them sexually attractive, only good looking guys close to my age do that for me (though that 'close to' bubble is certainly wider than it was, it's still not very big).
Facials and grandmas.
I like the idea of nutting on someone's face but I feel like doing it in some kind of hole feels better and less of a mess.
As for grandmas it's not something I regularly watch and I feel like actually being there, feeling the sag, and not wanting to do something like shatter their pelvis would put me off