You asked, I answered. Do you want to know what people think about your standards or not? I agree with your friends. I'm not equipped to help you demystify your feelings towards women, but I think a good place to start is by examining why these things are such deal breakers to you. Is the presence of these qualities the only things you find attractive, regardless of any other factors? Because that's not how people typically view attractiveness.
If you really are a tren goblin you should stop taking unhealthy recreational drugs before you worry about drugs other people use. Like another user said, don't expect anything you can't bring to the table for them.
Also, the health of recreational drug use varies wildly. Having one drink of alcohol each night is different to getting very drunk every friday and saturday is different to going on cocaine benders every weekend is different to smoking a bit of weed after work is different to tripping on shrooms once or twice a month. Some of those have huge negative side effects on health, some have zero impact.
I believe that recreational drugs and alcohol even in moderation is not healthy. Its just my opinion if you disagree with me then that fine. We'll just have to agree to disagree on that.
As far what do I bring to table. I can offer a woman a very loving loyal man. I will compliment her about her appearance everyday and tell her how amazing I think she is and I will never look at another woman sexually ever again.
I agree even a little bit of alcohol is unhealthy, but that's backed up by the science on the topic. Classic psychedelics (shrooms, lsd, mescaline) are extremely safe tho, less impactful to health than an unhealthy meal. If health is that important to you, at least have a consistent and evidence based perspective on it.
Complimenting appearance everyday is a misguided thing to promise, it's better to compliment things people have more direct control over, and it's better to understand the person and their love languages and show love in a way that they'll appreciate the most. Never looking at another woman sexually is an impossible standard which you're better off not promising.
I don't think you need to be so specific with your requirements. If they don't like Anime, then that shouldn't be a deal breaker. As long as they're not forcing you to stop watching /liking those things, you can like different things.
But the reason why those things are a deal breaker for me is because I want a woman that I can play video games with and watch anime together in my 1 bedroom condo.
I don't care if a woman is 18 years old or if she is 50 years old. Aslong as she is a hardcore gamer and a anime fan and she is not obese or anorexic. Because there are hot 50 year old woman in my opinion.
Wow ok. So even if you met an amazing woman you got on with, if she didn't have play video games or watch Anime you'd reject them? Seriously, you need to think of your priorities before you enter any serious relationship because it doesn't sound like many of them are gonna end well
At the risk of making a serious reply in a shitpost thread...
Who you're attracted to and what you're looking for is subjective. No one else gets a say in what that is.
However, there are repercussions. The more rare what you're looking for is, the harder it is to find. The more broadly desired what you're looking for is, the more you're competing with other people.
So sure, go looking for what you want, but be aware that you might be looking a long time, and they might not be interested in you.
You want someone with a perfect body, no vices, and has the same interests as you? Those interest definitely aren't in your favor demographically too, some women definitely like video games (especially if you're willing to count mobile) and anime, but you have definitely shrunk the pool. You've also isolated yourself from a lot of options with your other requirements, a lot of people like those things, and the rest of us are at least willing to resign ourselves to tolerate them as long as it doesn't go too far.
You've limited yourself to a very small percentage of the dating pool, and you do you, but if you were this perfect girl, would you date you? She's got a tremendous amount of options. What are you bringing to the table that sets you apart?
When it comes to flaws that I'm willing to accept and overlook in a woman. If a woman doesn't lift weights then that's perfectly fine as long as she is not obese or anorexic. Because obesity and anorexia are not healthy. If a woman is into different types of video games or anime than me then that's fine because at the end of the day we are both still gamers and anime fans. And I don't if she is 50 years old I will still go on a date with her as long as she has the same hobbies and interests as me and she isn't
obese or anorexic because age is just a number to me.
If I were this perfect woman I would definitely date a myself.
As far as what I can bring to the table. I can offer her a very loving loyal and honest man. I will never betrayed her and will doing everything that she wants me to do for her.