She's always child-free. She has oldest kids 50% of the time and L is at Nana K’s every single day all day while Sarah goes shopping, takes selfies, gets her hair done, and filters her photos. This is delusional.
I think that everyone does who posts their pictures online. I don't really pay her any attention other than when the members of this group post her picture.
I don't and i post pictures of myself all the time. But even if I did filter, I don't get paid a crap ton to be "authentic" on social media. The problem with her is she portrays herself to look a certain way whole claiming to be a body positive inspiration for women. Meanwhile, she is photoshopping herself half her size and preying on their insecurities. She's profiting off of that.
I'm not trolling. I've seen posts in this group for weeks since you were evicted from Reddit. I don't understand why you are so obsessed with her and why she lives rent free in so many people's heads. I originally though this was an incel group since you sound like incels but then I realized that it was a hate group for a single person. I don't know her. I hadn't even heard of her until you lot started spewing your hate here on Lemmy. I don't care about her or any of you. I am just trying to understand.
The group info doesn't tell me what she is doing that effects you personally. What has she done that has made you so obsessed that you keep coming back here to participate in the hate rather than just ignoring her and going on with your life?
Her platform has had a detrimental effect on people’s self-esteem and they way they perceive themselves since this particular person uses the same techniques as an abused to draw you in and become invested. Her platform, on tne surface, stands for body confidence, family and acceptance but once your eyes are open you see she manipulates her image while telling people she never uses filters, photoshop or cosmetic procedures. You realize she is just after money and fame and cares about nothing and no one but herself. Her brand of body confidence is making women feel self-conscious about things they had never thought about before but it can be fixed if you just click her link.
She has weaponized mental health problems to shield herself from any kind of criticism and if someone questions her she turns it back on the questioner and says they have received her image, her message in a way she did not intend. It’s all intentional and calculated.
She has groomed people around her to believe she’s only about truth and kindness so they are blindly supporting her while she presents a false public image. She’s a salesperson who is violating disclosure laws. This isn’t a page of hate. This is a page where people who were hurt by her can gather and hopefully be a soft landing for the people who will come after. Congratulations on your weigh loss.
All of that makes sense. I think that's true of everyone who is an "influencer". I put "influencer" in quotes because I don't really think they have any influence at all. They're really just bloggers.
It reminds me of a cosplay girl who posts the most incredible photos of herself in costume. She's gorgeous and built like a concrete outhouse. When you find pictures of what she really looks like it's shocking. In the pictures she's gorgeous and curvy but in reality she's...plain. I assumed that she was doing some work on the photos but the difference was shocking. It made me laugh and then I just walked away. I didn't get obsessed and join a hate group. In the end I realized that it meant nothing to me that she was fake.
It's interesting to me that everyone in this group seems to angry. You're angry at her and you're angry at anyone who doesn't agree with your hate. What did she do that effected you personally and caused you to obsess about her to the point of coming here and participating in the hate party?
She’s meant to be a body confidence influencer, she makes her living off of that and she tells all of us to embrace ourselves the way we are but she’s out there filtering herself to appear a size 2/4 when she claims to be a 10/12/14. She has a lot of people who look up to her and are inspired by her because she has belly fat and she shows it but in reality she hates herself. I used to look up to her as it was great seeing someone with a similar body as me and she wasn’t afraid to show it, but now she just fucks with my mind because she filters herself to be someone she isn’t and that SUCKS because she wants all of us with body image issues to embrace ourselves yet she can’t even embrace herself.
I could go on and on a good all the things she’s done wrong but that’s just the one that has really affected me and yes it does make me angry. She’s making money off of being a fraud and I think that sick.
I could go on and on about all the things she’s done wrong but that’s just the one that has really affected me and yes it does make me angry. She’s making money off of being a fraud and I think that sick.
So many people do that, though. I think that's true of most "influencers". Is that what it is? The members of this community have body image issues and bought into her bullshit then were distraught to find out that she was a fraud? That's rough.
Not threatening, you just don’t seem to understand why we’re angry about this person. You don’t think we should be affected by her but maybe you shouldn’t be affected by us?
I understand that the issue is that she's using filters to altered the photos she posts, like every single other "influencer" does. Now I'm trying to figure out why anyone cares enough to create a hate community and why so many people participate in the hate. Why does she live rent free in so many people's heads? I assumed when I first saw the level of vitriol in this group that you were a bunch of incels but when I saw a few more posts I realized that it was just a bunch of people hating on one person. I don't understand.
So...how does what she does effect you in any way?