Linux suggestion

I'm currently looking for a new OS, coming from KDE neon and I like it, but the fact I have to FUCKING restart because someone decided to push an OS update that broke my previous install, now the OS freezes my whole PC (never did before!) and I have to restart.

I'm looking for good apps support so Debian? Idk Using it for daily usage (Android/games development) and gaming.

I'm also looking for:

• Wobbly windows (yes useless but cool lol)
• Good customization
• KDE connect support (a must)
• Krunner or equivalent (MacOS like search)
• Idk?

Thank you!