Why are so many people so fixated on Lemmy's growth?
...relative to Reddit's size?
I see so many posts and comments voicing disappointment with Lemmy's lack of massive expansion.
I too want to see Lemmy gain more users, but I do not want it to grow to Reddit's size. If Reddit is the yardstick, I'd say that a population that large attracts a lot of negative behaviours; degeneration of discourse, amplification of echo chambers and hive mind behaviour, etc...
I started on Reddit in 2010 and found that by 2016 things were really bad in comparison. A fun and engaging site was experiencing an obvious devolution that persists to this day, accelerated by Spez's enshittification of the platform. Obviously the fediverse insulates us from that occurring here but I think you get what I mean.
Do you you think Lemmy is too small? I don't. I've been here since the great migration last year and have had a really good time. I see a lot of familiar names in the comments on a daily basis. It actually feels like a community here. I guess I just don't understand the fixation on the size of Lemmy's user base. Curious to hear your thoughts.
[EDIT] Thanks for all the responses, everyone! Lots of perspectives I hadn't yet considered.
On !fedigrow@lemm.ee there's a weekly thread called "How are you doing with your communities?" It's for/by all the people who single-handedly keep niche communities alive by posting regularly. It can be a tough job, and easy to burn out. That's because of the relatively small population here on Lemmy.
However, I agree that I like the culture here better. On Reddit, even when I blocked ads I still felt like I was being marketed to and manipulated.