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  • When you actually sit down and talk to people in these marriages they tend to be content.

    Your suggestion that another culture or religion is “backwards” is a very awkward claim to make as those rarely come from a good place.

  • My cousin was miserable after his first year in marriage. Our grandmother, who was lovely but not perceptive, told him not to marry her after meeting her the first time because she was dismissive of his perspective. My cousin didn’t think this was an issue until the honeymoon period wore off and then realized his new wife never thought he knew anything.

    They lasted 6 years.

  • OR they come from a culture that does arranged marriages and you are being anti-theist and unintentionally culturally insensitive.

    You are aware that arranged marriage is a thing still, right?

  • Arranged marriages have better results than love based ones in many cultures. It turns out having all your family who have had kids and been married have a clearer understanding of the couples compatibility than those in love.

    Love will make you overlook the thing that your auntie would zero in on as a long term problem.