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  • Per wikipedia they only have 36 F-35s in Israel.

  • What is the differences between love and infatuation?
  • Regardless, I would respect her wishes as an individual and continue to love her as a friend. She's requesting that space and her autonomy should be respected even if things seem perfect otherwise. Maybe she'll change her mind, but I would not operate on that assumption or it will create unhealthy behaviors and poison the well.

    I would take what you've learned from her about friendship and community and apply it elsewhere. Whether it's a polyamorous or monogamous or a series of flings or platonic friendgroups, whatever you need to move yourself in a forward direction. She can support you as your friend as you grow your community and/or romantic life and you can support her as her friend and not her prospective lover. She would probably appreciate you working to better yourself.

  • What is the differences between love and infatuation?
  • Love is the drive for community, to grow with another person or people in order to build something greater than yourselves. Infatuation and Passion can be expressions of love, but they are not love in-itself.

    Infatuation in the absence of love is simply a desire for possession, a drive to make a person yours as though they're a resource to be harvested. Infatuated love can fade to pure possessiveness or boomer-esque disdain when the situation develops in a way that wasn't expected. To really love someone, you have to be prepared for them to change.

    An easy example of this is when the love a parent has for their child fades when that child wishes to transition. True love would work through the change in order to value the person over their static "role" in the family structure.

    In romantic love this can come in the form of pregnancy, increased dependence, increased independence, failing to contribute to the family economy, and a myriad of other reasons, some as simple as boredom when the New Relationship Energy fades off.

    New Relationship Energy fueled by infatuation can mask a lot of incompatibilities, and when things fade you might find genuine feelings were for a person who only exists in your head. I believe this is what your friend is worried about.

    I was actually in a similar situation as a teenager from which I moved on. If she's a lot more experienced than you she might be clocking incompatibilities that are inconsequential with you two being "just" friends, but could create drama when the NRE wears off.

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  • I’m sorry but as a brown dude, having a hot white female friend is pretty much a cheat code in life
  • Some things in my life are suddenly starting to make sense. thinking-about-it

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    Bulletins and News Discussion from August 26th to September 1st, 2024 - Ruto Must Go - COTW: Kenya
  • What the fuck, just let them go to the airport, why???

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    Bulletins and News Discussion from August 26th to September 1st, 2024 - Ruto Must Go - COTW: Kenya
  • I've really been curious how long Hexbear will last.

  • I guess we're doing meta memes now
  • WHAT DOES IT MEAN?

  • Google Is the Only Search Engine That Works on Reddit Now Thanks to AI Deal
    www.404media.co Google Is the Only Search Engine That Works on Reddit Now Thanks to AI Deal

    DuckDuckGo, Bing, Mojeek, and other search engines are not returning full Reddit results any more.

    Google Is the Only Search Engine That Works on Reddit Now Thanks to AI Deal

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    Google is now the only search engine that can surface results from Reddit, making one of the web’s most valuable repositories of user generated content exclusive to the internet’s already dominant search engine.

    If you use Bing, DuckDuckGo, Mojeek, Qwant or any other alternative search engine that doesn’t rely on Google’s indexing and search Reddit by using “site:reddit.com,” you will not see any results from the last week. DuckDuckGo is currently turning up seven links when searching Reddit, but provides no data on where the links go or why, instead only saying that “We would like to show you a description here but the site won't allow us.” Older results will still show up, but these search engines are no longer able to “crawl” Reddit, meaning that Google is the only search engine that will turn up results from Reddit going forward. Searching for Reddit still works on Kagi, an independent, paid search engine that buys part of its search index from Google.

    The news shows how Google’s near monopoly on search is now actively hindering other companies’ ability to compete at a time when Google is facing increasing criticism over the quality of its search results. And while neither Reddit or Google responded to a request for comment, it appears that the exclusion of other search engines is the result of a multi-million dollar deal that gives Google the right to scrape Reddit for data to train its AI products.

    “They’re [Reddit] killing everything for search but Google,” Colin Hayhurst, CEO of the search engine Mojeek told me on a call. Hayhurst tried contacting Reddit via email when Mojeek noticed it was blocked from crawling the site in early June, but said he has not heard back.

    “It's never happened to us before,” he said. “Because this happens to us, we get blocked, usually because of ignorance or stupidity or whatever, and when we contact the site you certainly can get that resolved, but we've never had no reply from anybody before.”

    As Jason wrote yesterday, there’s been a huge increase in the number of websites that are trying to block bots that AI companies use to scrape them for training data by updating their robots.txt file. Robots.txt is a text file which instructs bots whether they are or are not allowed to access a website. Googlebot, for example, is the crawler or “spider” that Google uses to index the web for search results. Websites with a robots.txt file can make an exception to give Googlebot access, and not other bots, so they can appear in search results that can generate a lot of traffic. Recently Google also introduced Google-Extended, a bot which crawls the web specifically to improve its Gemini apps, so websites can allow Googlebot to crawl but block the crawler Google uses to power its generative AI products.

    Robots.txt files are just instructions, which crawlers can and have ignored, but according to Hayhurst Reddit is also actively blocking its crawler.

    Reddit has been upset about AI companies scraping the site to train large language models, and has taken public and aggressive steps to stop them from continuing to do so. Last year, Reddit broke a lot of third party apps beloved by the Reddit community when it started charging to access its API, making many of those third party apps too expensive to operate. Earlier this year, Reddit announced that it signed a $60 million with Google, allowing it to license Reddit content to train its AI products.

    Reddit’s robots.txt used to include a bunch of jokes, like forbidding the robot Bender from Futurama from scraping it (User-Agent: bender, Disallow: /my_shiny_metal_ass) and specific pages that search engines are and are not allowed to access. “/r*.rss/” was allowed, while “/login” was not allowed.

    Today, Reddit’s robots.txt is much simpler and more strict. In addition to a few links to Reddit’s new “public content policies,” the file simply includes the following instruction:

    User-agent: * Disallow: /

    Which basically means: no user-agent (bot) should scrape any part of the site. “Reddit believes in an open internet, but not the misuse of public content,” the updated robots.txt file says.

    “Unfortunately, we’ve seen an uptick in obviously commercial entities who scrape Reddit and argue that they are not bound by our terms or policies,” Reddit said in June. “Worse, they hide behind robots.txt and say that they can use Reddit content for any use case they want. While we will continue to do what we can to find and proactively block these bad actors, we need to do more to protect Redditors’ contributions. In the next few weeks, we’ll be updating our robots.txt instructions to be as clear as possible: if you are using an automated agent to access Reddit, you need to abide by our terms and policies, and you need to talk to us.”

    Reddit appears to have updated its robots.txt file around June 25, after Mojeek’s Hayhurst noticed its crawler was getting blocked. That announcement said that “good faith actors – like researchers and organizations such as the Internet Archive – will continue to have access to Reddit content for non-commercial use,” and that “We are selective about who we work with and trust with large-scale access to Reddit content.” It also links to a guide on accessing Reddit data which plainly states Reddit considers “Search or website ads” as a “commercial purpose” and that no one can use Reddit data without permission or paying a fee.

    Google did not respond to a request for comment, but its announcement of the company’s deal with Reddit points out not only how valuable Reddit is for training AI, but what many of us already know: As Google Search gets increasingly worse in turning up relevant search results, one of the best ways to still get them is to add “Reddit” to your search queries, directing Google to a site where real humans have been writing advice and recommendations for almost two decades. There are a lot of ways to illustrate how useful Reddit can be, but I’m not going to do better than this video:

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tcJcw55zIcc

    The fact that Google is the only search engine that leads users to that information now, and that it is apparently the result of a $60 million deal around AI training data, is another example of the unintended consequences of the indiscriminate scraping of the entire internet in order to power generative AI tools.

    “We've always crawled respectfully and we've done it for 20 years. We're verified on Cloudflare, we don't train AI, we're like genuine, traditional genuine searching, we don't do ‘answer engine’ stuff,” Hayhurst said. “Answer engine” is Perplexity’s name for its AI-powered search engine. “The whole point about Mojeek, our proposition is that we don't do any tracking. But people also use us because we provide a completely different set of results.”

    Reddit’s deal with Google, Hayhurst said, makes it harder to offer these alternative ways of searching the web.

    “It's part of a wider trend, isn't it?” he said. “It concerns us greatly. The web has been gradually killed and eroded. I don't want to make too much of a generalization, but this didn't help the small guys.”

    !monke-beepboop

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    NYT - America’s Adversaries Have Seized on Its Leadership Crisis

    "One Painful Debate Is Not Evidence of America’s Decline

    Russia and China have seized on last week’s painful presidential debate to push their narrative that America is in terminal decline."

    !taken-seriously

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    The Moral Economy of the Shire
    nathangoldwag.wordpress.com The Moral Economy of the Shire

    Who paid for this? There’s a certain meme that I see making the rounds on Facebook every so often about the bucolic nature of life in the Shire, from Tolkien’s The Hobbit and The Lord o…

    The Moral Economy of the Shire

    An interesting analysis of Tolkein's descriptions of Hobbits. Quite a lot of quotes/citations. It really cuts through the whole "hobbits are anarchists" theory.

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    A Fedi user is working on a self-hostable search engine that prioritizes free and federated content
    alpha.polymaths.social Post by The Searchable Amin Hollon , @amin@alpha.polymaths.social

    I'm proud to announce the launch of the public beta for Clew, my independent web search engine! 🎉🎉🎉 Try Clew: https://clew.se Add to your browser: https://clew.se/add/ Clew maintains an independent index and is aiming to be a copyleft (APGLv3), self-hostable, privacy-respecting, customizable sea....

    Post by The Searchable Amin Hollon  , @amin@alpha.polymaths.social

    > I'm proud to announce the launch of the public beta for Clew, my independent web search engine! 🎉🎉🎉 > > Try Clew: https://clew.se \ > Add to your browser: https://clew.se/add/ > > Clew maintains an independent index and is aiming to be a copyleft (APGLv3), self-hostable, privacy-respecting, customizable search engine which prioritizes independent creators/bloggers/writers and penalizes sites with ads and trackers. > > Many features are yet to come. If you'd like to support Clew's development and server costs, you can donate to its Liberapay team: https://liberapay.com/Clew/ > > Boosts are very welcome, as is feedback of any kind!

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    Bumble’s Whitney Wolfe Herd says your dating ‘AI concierge’ will soon date hundreds of other people’s ‘concierges’ for you

    > Imagine this: you’ve “dated” 600 people in San Fransisco without having typed a word to any of them. Instead, a busy little bot has completed the mindless ‘getting-to-know-you’ chatter on your behalf, and has told you which people you should actually get off the couch to meet.

    The memes are becoming real. !omori-manic

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    Fediverse already has a Tiktok replacement in the works
    loops.video Loops by Pixelfed

    Loops, explore and share short videos on the fediverse. Available soon!

    Loops by Pixelfed

    Curious if it'll gain any traction. The dev already has an instagram clone.

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    Me when

    Me when someone uses my driveway to turn around, but I'm not a scared little piss baby

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    Grippy Golf - What if Katamari but golf?
    mastodon.gamedev.place Switchback Studio 🏳️‍🌈 (@SwitchbackStudio@mastodon.gamedev.place)

    Attached: 1 video My game is releasing today! 😱😱 It's a speedrunning golf game where objects stick to the ball, and the goal is to get a hole-in-one on every level. ✨Get it on Steam: https://store.steampowered.com/app/2299080?utm_source=mastodon 🙏Please like and repost! #Gaming #Gamedev #Ind...

    Switchback Studio 🏳️‍🌈 (@SwitchbackStudio@mastodon.gamedev.place)

    > My game is releasing today! 😱😱 > > It's a speedrunning golf game where objects stick to the ball, and the goal is to get a hole-in-one on every level. > > ✨Get it on Steam: https://store.steampowered.com/app/2299080?utm_source=mastodon > 🙏Please like and repost! > > #Gaming #Gamedev #Indiedev

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    Redditors complaining that there are cannibals in the Russian army
    1. Is this a real thing?
    2. Despite the "no racism" modpost a lot of comments are basically insinuating that Russians are inherently dangerous.
    3. https://daily.jstor.org/how-prisoners-contributed-during-wwii/
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    Estonian Population 1800-2020

    So I was reading through @sunaurus@lemm.ee 's comment about Estonian demographic history and felt intrigued by some of the claims, so I did a teeny tiny bit of digging to see what I could find. So here goes:

    1. The Estonian population expanded rapidly during the industrial revolution right up to the 1910s.

    2. World War 1 and the Great Depression manage to suppress population growth for the next decade.

    3. Nazi occupation of Estonia (marked RKO) coincides with WW2. The vast majority of ethnic Jews flee to the USSR, and those whl stayed behind were exterminated. The nazis and their Estonian collaborators built concentration camps. This coincides with a dip in the graph.

    4. After WW2, Estonia is back under the USSR. The first Estonian SSR was established in 1940-1941 when nazi occupation started. After some lag, the population begins climbing on the same curve it did before. The population of the country peaks in 1989.

    5. 20000 people were deported to Russia very early in the existence of the SSR

    6. The nazis aimed to remove 50% of the population on paper but only had 4yrs to do so. This means using concentration camps on ethnic Estonians for germans to take their homes/land as in palestine today.

    7. 20k is not the same as sunaurus's 20% claim, not even close. 20% does however match the proportion of modern estonians who are russian. The obvious conclusion one can gather from this comparison is that this is not dissimilar to Great Replacement propaganda. The assumption here is that ethnic Russians are taking up Estonian space, because the evidence points to massive population growth under the ussr rather than a contraction like the one that occurred with German occupation.

    Immigration was highest during that huge growth period, so I'm curious where all those excess deaths and gulags occurred to have not slowed or stopped said growth. It sounds to me like this person is just intimidated by people they consider foreign.

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    GPU prices are falling below MSRP due to the crypto crash | Digital Trends
    www.digitaltrends.com GPU prices are falling below MSRP due to the crypto crash | Digital Trends

    Prices for some of the most popular graphics cards are crashing at an aggressive rate thanks to the recent unprecedented cryptocurrency crash.

    GPU prices are falling below MSRP due to the crypto crash | Digital Trends

    It's finally happening, you hogs. Time to get your slop. :Hoggers:

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