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Boynomoder [she/her, pup/pup's]
Boynomoder [she/her, pup/pup's] @ Boynomoder @hexbear.net
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  • Going out to dinner with wife’s parents.
    Didn’t have time to put on makeup; hopefully I’m not too ugly

  • I mean it’s kind of hard to fully separate two things in a dialectical relationship like that.

  • why do they think you are putting femininity on a pedestal? (and why is that bad?)

  • I am obligated, as a lesbian, to click on this video every time it shows up on my feed

  • bi-men?

    ::: spoiler spoiler I have a humiliation fetish, so a lot of that stuff can be weirdly affirming to me, but also a lot of it can go too far and it feels weird or mean.
    “Sissy” stuff is pretty hit or miss I think just because of the different types of people who are into it. :::

  • I mean it absolutely turned me into a recluse.
    Like you said tho, I kind of wanted to have things sorted first with hormones and presentation, etc.
    To me the idea of saying “hello, world. I’m a woman” when your presentation is still very male caused/causes me a lot of psychic damage and dsyohoria.

  • I guess I’ve come at this from being a kind of cigarette-y boy, so I partially had an outlet for my femininity and never really felt like a man.

    So that status quo was more comfortable to me than claiming womanhood for myself when I felt like the world wouldn’t see me as one (or I myself fully)

  • Idk I lived in a pretty progressive area with this stuff and I still couldn’t bring myself to come out for awhile