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Let's have another good week everyone

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  • oh! before i forget, we're gonna be watching movies this saturday on our very own special trans cytube channel! this week's features are gonna be Fire Island and Hadestown. probably gonna get started around 8 PM EST

  • I'm gay as fuck but there's this one male coworker I have who's really tall and masculine and they make me feel so small and feminine in comparison so he gives me a fluttery feeling.

    Unfortunately I found out he's going through the steps to become a cop.

  • Just had an interaction at work where a guy initially thought I was a dude and then corrected himself by asking for my pronouns. I am at that wierd middle part of of transition where being correctly gendered is like a coin flip (weighted against my favor unfortunately)

    He then apologized if I felt like I wasn't seen and that gendering people correctly is important to him.

    Need more allies like him. Fuck, I'm crying a little now.

  • Big news!! I won a scholarship today!!!! And I got my loan NoA and it's 2k higher than I expected!!!! I am now able to pay for my entire coming year of tuition and rent, and my jobs (which are already locked in barring one that is basically locked in) will be enough to cover food and then some!!!!!!!! I might even maybe be able to afford that big $500 order of indie chinese lolitas I've been wishlisting sometime before Christmas!!!!!!!!!!

  • I wish I had more to talk about these days. I guess when you hit 2 years into transition, the exciting stuff is ongoing or has already occurred. Not much to get super excited about except the slow, gradual transition that's not so fast like breasts or what have you. Skin's smooth. Breasts, heaving. Body hair, thinned. Voice, trained. Vagina, gotten. Fat, redistributed/ing. Idk, I feel out of place here nowadays. Kinda sucks. Guess I could talk about top surgery and how it's going to even out my breasts? Seems like a boring thing to drone on about.

    EDIT: I just realized this post can be considered humble bragging. I swear to the gods I just wanted to make a post about how I can't really relate to a lot of you anymore :\

  • Was in the deep, deep south yesterday. The kinda place with like 5k population, no major cities for 2+ hours, no cell signals. Stopped at a gas station to refuel, piss, and get some snacks for the road. Standing in line waiting to pay, and this old woman starts slowly walking towards me. I didn't know what was about to happen but she gets really close to me and smiles and says, "I love your shirt. I do." and then smiles again and nods and I'm trying not to tear up, dawg. I paid for my stuff smiling and then drove away pretty happy.

    I was wearing this shirt

    Idk man, shit is alright sometimes

  • "Living in sin" makes it sound so much more lascivious and dirty than it is. Like sure Aunt Germaine, the wife and I were just hanging out cuddling and watching slop and eating cookies, but sure, we were fucking LIVING IN SIN!! OH, HOW DEBAUCHED, THE UTTER INDECENCY, A 24/7 LIFE OF LECHEROUS LESBIANISM!!!!!

  • I can't stand when people bathe themselves in cologne/perfume. You don't need that much! I shouldn't be able to smell you from another room, and the smell shouldn't linger in rooms you haven't even been in!

  • Chat is it misogyny if within your family you (not a woman but consistently gendered as one) and your mom are always expected to do the cooking to the point where your brother and your dad don't know how to cook. Oh and also they're always going out with their friends (obviously not COVID-safely) while you have to work ~1 hour a day (not every day but most days) for a meal that they might not even end up eating but expect to have on the table anyways. Oh and also there is not really any way to shorten that cooking time because cooking a full Chinese family-style meal is the expectation and there's no real way to get out of that. Is this that Feminism 101 concept of "invisible labor" that we like to talk about. Because I feel like in my family I'm the only person who sees this and I don't dare bring it up because if I do I'll be made to feel ridiculous.

  • MODS?! A fucking deer ate a bunch of my tomato plants in the garden. There are a bunch of lettuce plants like 10 feet away that I wouldn't even have been mad if they munched on instead. Now I'm probably not even getting heirloom tomatoes this year. No caprese salad?

  • Y'know what's bullshit??? Women's tanktops. No I do not necessarily want a sideboob window that is a foot fucking long, no I do not want some elaborate cutout window in the back showing my brastraps off, I am going biking for fucks' sakes. Fuck you whoever made EVERY tank like this.

  • My secret for posting? I wait until I have a good day, and I am exhausted enough to the point where I don't have enough brainpower to question myself or second-guess my decision. Sometimes I feel like I act better when I'm tired, I probably mask way too goddamn much for my own good. The worst part about it is that I can't really control it šŸ˜‚šŸ¤£šŸ˜­.

  • I just got a letter in the mail informing me that the amazing informed consent clinic that is entirely queer owned and ran is going to close in a few months. I'm pretty upset about it. The letter said they would help my find a new Dr so I'll talk to them about it when I have my next appointment.

  • two weeks ago i wore a dress for the first time in two years inside, now I wore one walking to the store. big moves are happening in the life of yor

  • Iā€™m lying awake in my bed wondering why software wizards donā€™t actually have any wizards in them. Seriously, wtf. Instead of some crappy progress bar, wouldnā€™t you rather have a little wizard in your computer that chants a spell in front of a crystal ball and magically summons software for you? I know I would. How could they just lie to us like that.

  • Wife problems that are not actually problems but kinda: I tend to wake up an hour or two earlier than my wife does. Which, weh! Why can we not wake up together in beautiful gay harmony!! Me laying in bed reading gay slop awaiting wifey to arise!!!

  • I love (most of (one is terrrrriiibllee and i want her gone)) my housemates

    Yes theyre
    s but they do genuinely care about others and want to make life better for everyone. Were open with each other and have become good friends

    I just keep being the voice of " Kamala and Walz are still politicians, they dont care about the underclasses. Their policies have been shitty in these ways [enumeration]". And try to frame things in a way theyll understand. Theyre not

    which is more than I can say for a lot of other self proclaimed leftists ive talked with.

  • I have to go to the mechanic and i realllly dont want to

    So instead ill go tomorrow i guess

    and pray nothing falls off the car and make me
    (joking, the car is not that bad, it just needs some help, im not driving on highways, and am being safe)

  • Just got back from a backpacking trip in the Southwestern US. We had to cut it short because my friend fell ill, but still got to be in the wilderness for 6 days.

    It was so lovely, fellow trans comrades. Hereā€™s a couple of photos: ::: spoiler spoiler

    :::

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