Women of Lemmy who are attracted to men, what do you like about/are attracted to in men?

I like being held in their hard arms and abs and smell their cologne/aftershave.

I have an oral fixation that only cock can satisfy.

Jesus this is gonna be my horninest post now isn't it?

Please let the horniness flow
So for you, it’s less about appearance and more about sensation/how they make you feel?
- Yeah, appearance beyond having a healthy body isn't that important to me, like basic hygiene and not being obese. Them being a good person matters a lot to me. Smell is important to me too.
  I guess gravitate twoards more average height/build guys instead of muscleheads tho, because those huge kinds of guys scare me even if they're sweet.
- Penits

I am hetero, and it doesn't feel like a choice, at all. Sex only feels like sex when it's with a guy. I wish it were otherwise, honestly, men are troublesome and I think cause most of the world's problems (sorry, guys). My kids think I should be gay, too, it's funny. But what I affirmatively like about men, in particular?

Fit guys are so fucking gorgeous, men's bodies can be beautiful and so strong. And men in general are less hung up about their looks, and mine - they see what is good more than what is bad.

I like my partner to be bigger than me, at least as tall as I am or close, and that's much easier to find with a man. And I'm subby but sometimes like to fight back and with guys I know cannot win, I can let go.

The obvious - PIV feels oh so good, my favorite sex is just sex.

And I do like that we are different. I am not sure if I would be straight or gay if I was a guy.

men's bodies can be beautiful and so strong
What do you find beautiful about men’s bodies?
- Shoulder to waist ratio (frame not muscle - I like that on women too) and guy hands and forearms, men's legs are often really nice when they are in shape because they are leaner than women. But mostly it's the overall frame, the way guys can look strong and sturdy.
A second question is what do you like about PIV/dick? Because reading certain forum posts gave me the impression that oral was more important and that PIV wasn’t.
- I couldn't get off from PIV until I had my last baby and the ten pound wonder knocked something around in there on the way out. Now it's easier, and multiples that way are all pleasure, nothing to power through or endure between them. But even when I couldn't, it was my favorite. Not sure I can explain it to someone who doesn't enjoy penetration. It's not how I do myself, I can cum easy from direct clitoral stimulation but when someone else does it it's almost too intense, and trying to get more than one almost hurts, though I don't think I am oversensitive at all.
  I guess the mind is the biggest sex organ, right? And getting fucked like that is just so arousing mentally.
  Oral feels good but unfortunately it is a fast road to a bladder infection for me now, oh well. So I have to be careful, go clean up right after. I do think guys who are good at that are good lovers though because you have to be able to respond and adjust.

As a woman this is my favorite post. I'll have to probably think clearly before I type a response, the horniness is clouding my mind😅

Has your mind cleared up enough to answer?
- For starters, I adore how eager men are to satisfy me (doesn't matter if they are masculine musclemen or twinks), they look at me dead in the eyes, it's very intimate.
  Second, I love it when they pin me down & thrust deep, a man moaning as they pound a woman is so sexy.
  Third, them trying to wrap their body around me is so comfy (plus their musky scent🫦)

On the internet, large cock, abs, etc. In real life it's almost exclusively personality traits such as kindness, patience, self-awareness, empathy, intelligence (eq first, iq second)

Realistically looks might only push me towards the initial contact, past that looks are mostly irrelevant.

As for sexual stuff, being considerate but also knowing how to be rough and take control. Nothing hotter than someone who truly cares about how you feel but knows how to fuck you to tears (concentually)