2w ago

Slightly too relatable rule

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They might not show it to you because they don't know you that well and/or think you might not care to see it. I trained my mind to jump to more positive interpretations in situations like that and more often than not they turn out to be correct.
- This. I've learned recently that you shouldn't assume the worst of people right off the bat. Most people are in the middle of the Bell curve; they are not your enemy, nor are they your friend. To assume that they wish to harm you or leave you out is, more often than not, false. It's more likely that you just arent in their current sphere of attention
  
  Most people are in the middle of the Bell curve; they are not your enemy, nor are they your friend.
  Exactly. And if you examine your own behaviour in social interactions you'll probably find that this applies to you as well. There's a good chance you've made someone feel left out before when all you wanted was to avoid rejection or pestering them. It happens.