Anon touches grass

this is why i have no pity for incels
- It's rough to be an awkward teenager, struggling to find the kind of mutual affection that you're biologically programmed to crave. Like, bares mentioning that the OG incel was a woman complaining how much difficulty she had getting laid. And one of her primary complaints was how clumsy, prudish, and superficial her male peers proved themselves to be.
  The 4chan crowd decided to Rule 30 her blog and insist this was an exclusively cis-het male problem. And then the right-wing outrage machine keyed in on it and decided this was a problem caused by the villanious cartel of liberal feminists, who were all trying to groom eligible bachelorettes into man-hating lesbians with hairy legs and pink hair. And now we've got an entire industry dedicated to telling men "Go to the gym, eat meat, be extremely misogynist, and vote for Donald Trump so you can have your dream of a 10/10 stacked Tradwife hottie in the suburbs with 12 kids".
  "Incel" has gone from a feminist critique of unrealistic expectations of teen dating into a reactionary consumerist fantasy.
  
  fair enough. news to me.
  i still have no pity.
  
  Yeah and this is where I fall into the "listen if you're someone who can't get laid that hates that these reactionary assholes have made difficulty getting laid into "this" I'm sympathetic. But incels as they actually are have no sympathy from me.
  Touch grass, work on your mental health, get a hobby, start participating in society in a constructive manner and start showering.
  One of the things that gets to me is how often they mock the advice that actually helps. And I get it, I've struggled with mental illness and mocked helpful advice. But fucking hell dude so often the reason they can't get laid is that nobody wants to spend time with them in any capacity.

This is true unless you live in a rural part of the country, going outside is risky.

As cliched as it is, attitude makes a difference in how you view the world around you. Two people seeing the exact same thing can have vastly different views. Hell, the same person can have different views on different days or hours of the same day. Humans are like that.
- To your point we literally don’t see the same things. Humans only “see” a tiny thumbnail of the world at a time even that is a blurry recreation of what reality is actually doing or happening in front of you.
  It’s filling in the gaps in real time by old memories and splotched together assumptions. Now add to that other humans together in a group. You’re gonna eventually agree on a reality that you can communicate about and make decisions etc.
  The internet has inserted itself in the evolutionary path of humans and inadvertently all life forms on earth. It’s like an alien entity that controls human minds like a fungus would.

The way I see it 4chan is filled with people who have untreated mental health issues. I personally have Anxiety and the world seems dark and miserable (granted im also trans and surrounded by Transphobes).
- Being trans in 2025 must feel like being Will Smith in Enemy of the State.
  
  Pretty much
  
  Im also a strong unionist and Anarcho-Syndicalist, im basically playing life like its Wolfenstein on the mein leben difficulty (the hardest one)

Shhh. Let them stay at home, I don't need the competition.
- Competition? You may be giving them too much credit.
  
  You may be giving @TrackinDaKraken@lemmy.world too much crdit.

i gotta know where this guy lives because that sounds awesome
- Um, pretty much everywhere? Just avoid the upper-class areas and you'll see essentially what OP sees.
- Sounds like most major US cities.
  Edit: or college towns, even.
  
  Yeah you need to be in a high cost of living area, not in rural hell.
- In Brazil, maybe the only thing not as accurate is that here everyone is cute and handsome (the gostosa energy)

Compare LA to Phoenix AZ and you go from the description of all the things the green text says are aren't true to them being reality. 4 Chan is probably filled with people from conservative shitholes hating life because they live in a conservative shithole
- I'm of the opinion that you shouldn't raise kids in conservative shit holes. What if they are gay?
- Yeah, this is what people don't get. Anon goes out in NY and sees that. Go out in Bumfuck, Utah and this are very different
  
  Hey, I live in Utah, and it's not bad. Sure, there are a bunch of Trumpers, but most of the people are chill. Even in the middle of nowhere.
  You can find good and bad areas everywhere. If you avoid the worst of it, pretty much everywhere is livable with people.
- This has nothing to do with right/left political inclinations. In the real world people just associate based on things they have in common.
- I imagine it can vary wildly within both of those cities. I guarantee that both cities you mention have areas where everything OP said holds true.

This feels weird, but I agree with you, internet stranger.

Life in a walkable city

Perhaps outside is so nice because all the haters are locked inside 4chan doing that annoying fucking captchca over and over.

I was anticipating his clarity once the Psilocybin wore off.
- just don't let that happen and you'll be fine. your existence occurs inside your head. make it a pleasant place.
- Some say that he's still high to this day.

It's a shame that this is fake gay
- Knew it was fake as soon as it started with >Go Outside
  
  And I knew it was gay when they first started talking about guys.
  
  😂😂

This is 100% true 50% of the time
- In only 25% of the world
  
  so 12,5% chance of this being the case? still not bad

✅ Fake
✅ Gay

So "outside" is real? I don't understand. Can someone give me a download like or something?
- There is no ceiling
  
  The ceiling stops the eldritch fleshmelter from melting my skin and stealing my vision.
- I dunno but am I crazy or is that onigumo?

It’s true

The issue is not that we anons are fat. The issue is our personality. That is why we do not have qt3.14gf.
- Its too bad there isn't a gym for one's personality.
  
  There is, it’s going outside and talking to people. Also therapy.
- You mean I got that protractor to measure the angles on my face for no reason? Dammit...