Trans Megathread for the Week of November 25th, 2024 to December 1st, 2024
Hello everyone! Hestia here with a new Megathread! Years ago, before I transitioned and when I was still in college I took an anthropology class. My favorite part of the class was when we were covering different gender customs across the globe and got to make a report on one of them. I can't remember exactly which one I chose for that project, but what I do remember is a map with different pins scattered on it with various forms of gender-queerness. I decided to track it down and share it with you folks!
Edit: you have to open this in a browser, if you're on a phone it will automatically try to open it in Google maps and won't bring up the info.
This map provides a brief summary of these genders, but does not go in depth. If you find any you're interested in, feel free to do some further research and share your findings here. I'll pin a comment to this post you can attach them. I'm going to share a couple that I found interesting and decided to look further into myself, both of them are non-binary and native american in origin.
The first one I want to talk about is the Winkte, which is a third gender role that was particulatly notable in the Lakota tribe
The Winkte are seen as half-men, half-women, and considered sacred. They are typically AMAB and historically have served unique roles in matters of romance and matchmaking and often served as intermediaries for prospecting couples and their families. They also participated in war parties, functioning primarily as witnesses to battle and as doctors to care for the injured. They were also seen as seers, able to forsee paths to victory.
This next one I'm going to talk about seems mostly local to the Zuni people called the "Lhamana" and I find the Zuni culture to be particularly fascinating, even just doing a cursory glance at it.
Gender roles were well defined in Zuni culture, but the Zuni also valued the concept of a "middle" as it represented stability. This originates from their creation myth, which I won't go in detail here because I don't feel qualified to summarize it, but it's in the link down below.
The Zuni culture is pretty neat and they don't refer to gender when talking about children. They believed that gender wasn't an inborn trait but something you acquired as you approached puberty. I wish this was the western approach, but alas.
As children approach puberty they begin to differentiate through different hair styles or clothing choices. AFAB Lhamana would grind corn and make a bowl of stew when they get their first period. There's probably some cultural significance to this, but I'm not going to do a deep dive on it right now. AMAB Lhamana would start to wear dresses once they hit puberty and start performing women's work. Both AMAB and AFAB Lhamana were allowed to switch between male and female gender roles as they pleased.
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i keep botching my t shot and it's been hurting more every time i work up the will to do it and i'm so frustrated. i don't know what's changed cause i've been doing my own injections for almost a decade now so i feel like i should kinda know what i'm doing?
like maybe the method i was shown is just out of date or i forgot how to do it correctly or maybe i'm just too fucking tense but it didn't used to hurt and bleed this much and i'm sick of it!!!
IM is just hard to self admin. Is there someone else you trust to do it? It can also be quite an intimate activity to share with someone.
You can mitigate some pain by making sure the shot is warmed a bit. Colder hurts more. And the bigger the belly of the muscle you use, the less it'll hurt. The least is hurtful is generally the triceps in your arm, but that is VERY hard to self admin. Otherwise your best bet is to stick with vastus lateralis (outer thigh). If you move it and walk it'll make it hurt less. They mightve changed the carrier oil as well (I'm pretty sure T is in oil). Wish I could give you some shots to ease the anxiety!! I have to do it with actual literal babies, there's some techniques to minimize pain bit ultimately it is something that's gonna hurt at least a little
like maybe the method i was shown is just out of date or i forgot how to do it correctly or maybe i’m just too fucking tense but it didn’t used to hurt and bleed this much and i’m sick of it!!!
Sucks when you get more anxious about it because the last time or two didn't go so well, so you accidentally do things like tense up more as a result and it becomes harder to do a good job. Even if the first time it doesn't go well is just because you got unlucky and struck blood...
Have you changed batch of needles or maybe the thing the T is mixed with is different?
exactly!!! i keep trying to relax beforehand but my body doesn't seem to want to listen so it's just the worst cycle.
now that you mention it...i have been using a new batch of needles for the past couple years or so? i inject with a 25 gauge needle but i used to use 23.
thank you, but i actually still do intramuscular in my thighs. i spoke to my doctor a while back to see about potentially switching to subcutaneous but he was very against it for some reason.
That’s fascinating. I always thought subcutaneous was the norm for T. Sorry then. I can’t do IM because it freaks me out too much :< I hope you resolve your issues post-haste.