Anyone else take a manager/team lead job and instantly regret it?
Anyone else take a manager/team lead job and instantly regret it?
I’ve been at my current job for 10 months now, manager who hired me was my manager at last job for like a year. He is pushing me to take a “team lead” job but ive always refused those in every other job ive been in. Seems like theyre always stressed, and like its not worth the headaches. Im very OCD about work and never call in, which my bosses see and are like “omg, youre such a good worker. Youd make a good boss right” which…no. Im super non confrontational and am terrible and social cues lmao.
Im happy just riding out where im at. I get good benefits, already paid well, and have no kids. Why tf add stress?
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Middle management is a scam and it hurts the soul.
You get a pay bump of, what 50 cents? A dollar or two? And for your trouble you get a whole lot more stress and you quickly find whatever pay increase you get is gobbled up because the buck stops with you and you are often stuck working back in crisis situations.
You also end up as the hatchet man, having to deliver whatever mahogany row decides would be the best way to squeeze customers or clients for dollars while making the work harder for employees, and often there's the expectation that you should resort to coercion and underhanded tactics.
Management roles are good if you want to do union organising, if you want to get dirt on the company (just a tip - those two are absolutely not mutually-exclusive btw), or if you have the right leadership skillset and you are critical to the function of the business such that you're able to swing your weight around and sorta gatekeep what the higher-ups think they're going to be able to impose on the staff or the team. But that takes a particular sort of person and it demands a lot of assertiveness, plus if you're not the kind of person who has a lot of credentials or industry contacts then you're probably going to bring down a whole lot of financial stress upon yourself when some higher-up takes a strong dislike to you and decides to fuck with you.
There are some reasonable management roles out there but those tend to be the exception to this rule imo.
I mean, mine would be like 4-5 dollars. Im working in a factory full of people.
But im at 25, no kids, dual income, in a low cost area in the midwest. Do I want to work way more stressed and ruin the relationship with co workers so I can make 28,29? Fuck that. Im good lol
There are plenty of people in the world who have faced serious consequences to their relationships and their physical health and mental wellbeing that are right behind you with that decision.
I have no doubt there would be tons of people who have one of those stress-induced autoimmune disorders who wish they could wind back the clock and say to themselves "You know what, a bit of extra cash would be nice but I'm not sure that taking on all that extra stress would do me any favours."