Folks I am scared.
Folks I am scared.
I told my friend I love her and wanted to kiss her again (we went on a date recently and we known each other for like 10 years)
I felt like the only responsible thing was to be honest and now I am losing my mind waiting to hear from her again.
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In my defense she did tell me it lights up her day whenever I text her and that she wanted to be part of my life "no matter what" so I don't think that was an unreasonable thing to do on my part, its just that romance has always ended badly for me and I really really love this girl and I need someone to tell me its gonna be fine.
Please help I need advice.
Fingers crossed thats so brave!!
Advice?
Breathe, chill, roll a j, vibe 💅
From the sounds of it you two are close and mean a lot to each other. You've said your peace and given her agency and choice. Cool beans.
If she says no and she meant as a friend will you still stay friends?
she says no and she meant as a friend will you still stay friends?
Definitely
Yey!!!!! Awwwh rooting so hard for you
Edit: to be a couple, I'm rooting for that. Not you being friends. Just to be very clear.
The only boundary you've crossed is being star-crossed 🥰💫
Sounds like the lights were pretty green
From the information in this post it seems like you're fine, I don't think you crossed any inappropriate boundaries and it seems she's receptive. You'll be ok.
Thank you. It has been a while and the only two serious relationships I ever had ended badly and both times were mostly my fault. I'm not afraid of rejection I'm afraid of getting into another romantic relationship.
Go for it, Nako... At least you've tried!
I'm not afraid of rejection I'm afraid of her wanting to be in a relationship lol.
Rejection I can shrug off, it's falling in love again that terrifies me.
This is going to be corny af, but falling in love is like a roller-coaster: it's supposed to be scary but exciting and crazy and it all happens so fast.
Sending you the best vibes so you can enjoy the ride