Now that you have settled here on Lemmy. What is your impression of it?
Now that you have settled here on Lemmy. What is your impression of it?
To me it feels like a matured Reddit. (At least most of the time š)
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Maybe itās because thereās less comments, but itās felt needlessly hostile. Even a small disagreement leads to this weird āwell youāre obviously a fucking idiot that has nothing worthwhile to sayā. I didnāt have that impression when I joined post API BS, but now that Iāve noticed it itās hard to ignore. A lot of people just reading what they want to read, and drawing conclusions that donāt relate to the immediate action.
The self-righteous rage and indignation is completely off the charts here, I totally agree.
Whenever a genuinely obnoxious post is upvoted multiple times, I always wonder how many of those upvotes are from the pathetic authorās alts, and how many are from people who are just fellow assholes.
Thatās unfortunate, because itās the opposite of my experience. Maybe I just donāt care, and/or Iāve gotten better at spotting the warning signs of trivial bullshit and then ignoring it.
The trolls feel like insecure outsiders who havenāt matured enough to āgetā Lemmy. Itās like they know they arenāt taken seriously, and want the imaginary clout they had on Reddit.
I get that, and I do my best not to feed the trolls, but it feels like theyāve been growing since I first joined. But just because I ignore it doesnāt mean I donāt notice it.
Iāve seen more sealioning than simple trolling. Sometimes, I canāt resist replying, because Iām not sure if theyāre genuinely seeing things differently, or just because their games annoy me.
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Speaking of proving the point lol
Not really.
How are you not proving his point? The very first thing I said was āthatās unfortunateā, because I empathize. I also used the word āmaybeā because Iām not omniscient and could very well be wrong. Describing my own experience is not ābraggingā or āhostileā, and since itās related to the topic at hand, certainly isnāt arbitrary.
Unlike you, I didnāt lead off with a paragraph of assumptions.
Iām not even touching that ridiculous āgroup dynamicsā bullshit, or the personal insults. They speak for themselves quite well. Have you ever heard of giving someone the benefit of the doubt?
Donāt waste too much effort on your inevitable reply. I wonāt be reading it.