I'm currently running something similar, what services are you running and do you use anything in addition to podman to manage your container (cockpit, systemd-units or similar)?
I run Nextcloud and two Jellyfin instances behind Nginx Proxy Manager. I also run a Palworld server. All of them are running under podman. I do use cockpit for checking container status, logs, and viewing the console for each container. I also use docker-compose to create all of my containers (using podman-docker of course). Unfortunately, all of them are running rootful instead of rootless, mostly because most proxies require root and setting things up for rootless like enabling low ports for regular users and allowing processes to run after logout are a pain in the ass.