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When I lost my virginity, the first and most powerful epiphany from that experience, right after the afterglow wore off, was the following:
"All right, now what?"
It feels like a big deal until you have sex. Then it's just a lot of pent up expectations and frustration left behind and you just continue with what you were already doing.
Don't let anyone bully you into feeling "pathetic" or whatever because of their own preoccupation with a score card.
Look at "RooshV." He's BAAANGED (in most cases, coercively or violently) scores of women and he's a pathetic loser that no one, not even nazis, wants to hang out with.
Who is RooshV?
from what little i know, someone who got very big in/led the "Pick Up Artist" alpha bro scene online - before the advent of the Tates
also definitely a rapist
'return of kings' was his site, 'bang' was his book series. Antifeminist rape advocate/PUA
A few years ago, he became hardcore Christian.
lmao
the Milo effect
Apologies for no CW, completely my fault
Similar experience. I realized quickly that (for me) sex wasn't really that great, and that the only actually good thing about losing my virginity was getting rid of my anxiety about it. It was completely a net negative vs if I had just never given a shit about it from the start.